Have you ever found out the truth about a matter, later, having to say to yourself, “Wow, I gave that person too much credit?” The saying usually accompanies the feeling of disbelief and disappointment. A reality check. A friend and I, use this term instead of saying we gave someone too much credit. We’d instead say, “We gave this person four much credit.” Slang. Meaning, we gave them double credit…you know, the benefit of doubt (times two) which is “4 much” credit…And, please don’t forget if you find yourself saying this…it’s because someone was given the benefit of doubt, that shouldn’t have been given it at all. You’ve discovered that person was a Trickster…a deceiver. So we coined the term, “4 Much” credit. Read the article, “Trickster” click link here, https://triddykat.com/trickster
I learned the hard way to stop asking people’s opinion unless they are on the same caliber of the person, I’m inquiring about. For example, I can not ask a woman, that has never given birth, whether I should get a epidural or not? It makes no sense…Not because she doesn’t know anything about childbirth but because she has no experience to draw from within herself on labor pain. So her advice will come from a limited place. Get it? Read, “Birth” here, https://triddykat.com/birth
Now, turn that to love. Some of us are giving people we love “4 much” credit. They have no self love, lack communication skills, they’re bitter, immature, etc. Yet, we still ask these same people for advice in our relationships. Why? If you refuse to heal, how can you give sound advice? It’s not coming from a good space. You may mean well but it will lack wisdom. Wisdom isn’t easily attained and lots of people have good intentions but it’s said, “The road to hell is paved with good intentions.” Y’all, get where I’m going with this right? LOL
The next time, you want to give someone the benefit of doubt, especially when asking he/she or them about a love interest…please, make sure the people you are asking, are at least, of the same caliber. If not, you may be getting advice from those with tainted hearts. Don’t be mad when you are forced to watch the drama unfold…catching yourself shaking your head and saying, “I gave them 4 much credit.” Yup, you sure did. Come on now y’all. We know better folks….They’re cock blockers. Read the article, “Cock Blocker” link here, COCK BLOCKER
“Make it, make sense.” Slang. Wink.
Keep shining.
~Triddy Kat💋
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