Disparaging

Be mindful being around those that cause you to doubt yourself. It’s beyond dangerous. Your first instincts are always correct. People that confuse you about your sense of Self or Reality are to be avoided like the plague. I used to argue or try to prove that I’m right…Now, I could care less who believes or gets why I do the things that I do. Read, “Self” click link here, Self

I have learned to cut certain things off and I don’t look back. I refuse to allow foolishness in. I find it too disparaging …which is defined, lowering in rank or reputation.

I refuse to entertain those that are envious and full of strife…I’ve got things to do. Plus, those types, secretly sabotage others because they, themselves lack courage to go after their own dreams. I had become accustomed to allowing in the unhealed and unhealthy. I saw that I needed to heal and rid my life of toxic patterning. It was hard work that required dedication to myself.

It all began with ME. Not with this or that person, it began with ME. Me taking “accountability” for my own life and the decisions that I make or that I had made. Period. When I finally accepted that…I began to see that I, was my problem.

My refusing to face reality, was granting toxic people space to distort my reality. My cognitive dissonance was unsettling. Certain individuals can cause you to second guess your reality. But, they can only do, what you allow. Get it?

Ask yourself…“What am I doing around these type of people? Where is my Self Love? When you know better, you do better. You have given your power away. Come up with a plan and change things. Take your power back, once you know better. Read the article, “Self-Love” click link here, https://triddykat.com/self-love/

I don’t care who or what their title is…Family, lover or friends, don’t allow those who refuse to do the work on themselves, in…And, expect nothing but foolishness from them. They’re warmongers…Until they make their own healing a priority, nothing will change. So it will be best, to step away. Read the article, “Warmongers” click link here, Warmonger

Healing should matter. Focus on fixing your own issues…that’s how you begin to heal. I like to call that, “Tending to your own garden.” Avoid those that are disparaging…

Your job is to run towards the opposite of that word disparaging, which is to Exalt. Wink.

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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