Finished

When it’s finished, celebrate. I don’t care what it is, that is finished. Anything that is finished can be described as complete. So when a cycle closes or ends, know that the very next one, opens or begins, simultaneously. Isn’t that a great thing? Lord knows, I have certainly been in toxic cycles, I could only pray to be over…end or complete. I needed a new door opened. Read the article, “Completion” click link here, Completion

Just know this, just because you want a new cycle doesn’t mean everyone’s happy about it. Dark forces will send their minions, right for you, to drag you back to hell. I remember, an ex that had absolutely no self-control. Once he swore he had to do something having no idea, I knew, he was lying. I shook my head and said nothing… Why? What good would it do with someone that isn’t ready to grow up? The problem wasn’t about them…although, they were a liar. Why would I willingly, invest any of my time or energy, into liars? That’s the true problem. It’s Not about the person, it’s about me. Self love wouldn’t allow me to be in relationships with people that need to heal because they lack emotional maturity. It’s meant to waste and drain your time. Leave that mess right where it is. Those people have a lot of healing to do..that’s fine. Just let them grow up and heal on their time, not yours. Wink.

That person had the nerve, to get upset because I was no longer interested a relationship with him. He retaliated, started a nasty smear campaign against me. I could care less. I knew he was toxic. He was used to living in a low vibration. Had I stayed attached to him, I’d be in that low vibration too. No thank you, I’ll pass. That kind of behavior is attached to a poverty mindset. It’s based on lies, strife, back-biting, confusion, lack, chaos, envy, addiction and gluttony. I had to overlook it all and move on because… Spirit won’t allow you to move forward until you’ve mastered, your own lessons. You must pass the test. I passed the test, walking away from what no longer served me. Being toxic was too draining. I wanted better for myself… I fell back in love, with just ME, again. Won’t he do it?? Read the article, “The Test” click link here, The Test

Be mindful of people, that live in a very low vibration. They’re are attached to the curse guys…and all are just alike. They lack self-love. Disrespect will be an under statement, amongst this group of people. You will suffer. They lie, cheat and steal, etc. Just unsavory behavior, then they blame you when their problems overtake them. Yet; Somehow they never connect, their behavior is directly correlated to their problems. People, we can’t treat people any kind of way, especially people that have sincerely tried to bring out the best in us. You can’t get mad, it’s just what those of a low vibration do. They must heal. Learn that and get your butt off that frequency. Someone’s behavior isn’t about you, it’s always about them. They are responsible for their own decisions, not you. Just step aside. Pray for them and move on. Keep your focus on you. Read the article, “You” click link here, You

In that example above, Spirit had showed me earlier, that this guy was lying…but I asked Spirit to specifically confirm, if the cycle was complete? This man’s action was the confirmation, that I had completed a toxic cycle, with him, the correct way. He was ridiculous but it really was not about him. I had to be shown how it looked and felt to be with a liar and cheat. It was Spirit showing me, how I used to dog men. So now, I got to see what that looked like. It was very unattractive. I was embarrassed for once behaving that way myself. I lost all sexual attraction to the guy. Once I knew he was a womanizer, it turned me off. So I, “Let cheaters, cheat in peace” and walked away. He was a pleasure seeker, only. I couldn’t build with or invest in that because I knew it couldn’t last. It would always be unstable. Strong foundations aren’t built on deceit.

I thanked God, I had spent the entire previous year, healing, so I just shook my head at the foolishness, then asked for Divine Intervention. That was not for me. I got to see what that truly looked like. I shared this to say guys, the people we met are to teach us something about ourselves. Dealing with a womanizer made me not want a womanizer again. Before that, I took that behavior lightly but as I began to grow spiritually, it turned me off. I recognized it was dangerous to be with someone, in that state of mind. It invites a lot of unnecessary drama into your life, too many people, will be involved. That is never a good mix. Be wary of that. Avoid it if you can but challenges come to help us grow.

That toxic cycle was to teach me to be more careful, in selecting men…And, that character and integrity matters, along with our values aligning. Toxic is toxic. That entire experience was a lesson on self worth. I was so grateful. I saw and could measure my progress. I wasn’t mad or bitter with that ex, I realized and accepted he wasn’t ready for what I wanted. I figured we could make moves together but sometimes people want different things. I became ok with that. I learned a lot in that relationship, so I considered it a great experience, although it hurt, it helped me grow a lot. I couldn’t ask for more. Read the article “Closed” click link here, Closed

Guys, it’s important to close cycles, when the Universe shows us or it will be shut down for you. Thank goodness, I knew that ending was coming…so Spirit allowed me to prepare for it. Self Love taught me that, I deserve someone that knows what to do with a woman’s heart. Not someone playing games with it. God is too good. Be encouraged, everyone wasn’t meant to stay with you long. Thank them for taking the time, to teach you, your lessons that are needed to help your soul evolve. Certain people come along, to teach you important life lessons. Appreciate it all. Life’s better than good, y’all. Read the article, “Self” click link here, Self

This was a random thought today, I decided to share it with you guys, enjoy your day! Updated 2/20/23

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~Triddy Kat💋

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