Liz

Remember the idiom, in the popular children’s folktale, written by Hans Christian Andersen: “The Emperor’s New Clothes?” He was out there parading in the nude. He was exposed before all of his subjects. No one said a word, no-one wanted to go against popular opinion. That’s a very stern warning to us, all for going along with the crowd. In not wanting to appear foolish, we say nothing. Therefore; being made foolish. Be mindful, ignoring what Spirit shows you. If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck and walks like a duck…chances are, it’s a duck.

Open your eyes, there may be something or someone trying to present you an illusion. Don’t let anyone fool you, you can always change your mind. I don’t care what it is…it can be down to a week, before the wedding, if that person lacks integrity and character, it’s a duck. You can do it anyway, just know that that person is presenting you, your lesson. We love to blame the other person and not look deeper at ourselves. They lacked both but we still married them anyway. Then, the lesson wasn’t about them, it was about us. The people we meet are teaching you, about yourself. And, that’s not a bad thing either. Don’t cheat at life. You’ll only cheat your self.

Now, I have certainly entertained ducks. We all will. I’ve also entertained wolves in sheep’s clothing. You’ve got to watch out for the wolves. Those are not easy to decipher because they come at you, purposely, hiding who they truly are. They are clothed and cloaked in deceit. They will study you, beforehand, to see what it is that you like, but something will be off. Your gut feeling will tell you. Your intuition will whisper, “You need to look a little closer here.” That little whisper is from Source. Truth always resonates...lies won’t. If it is their intention to deceive you, Spirit has your back. But you can’t punk out. Accept the challenge and rise to the occasion. Use that scenario to transform. A wolf in sheep’s clothing was sent by the enemy, to test you. Lean on Spirit and you shall prevail. Spirit will reveal the deception to you. But, It will be on you to accept what is revealed...may sound simple but it’s really not.

What if the wolf is a family member or a close friend or your spouse? How easy will it be to change your mind on that? Could you walk away? I don’t think so. Most of us can not accept truth because that truth revealed, requires adjustments on our behalf. Be it in our lifestyle, title or status, etc…most people can not simply accept truth. We require help to do so. It’s best to go to Source for help because we don’t know the hearts of men. Speaking of men made me think on Hollywood actress, Elizabeth Taylor. Whether we can admit it or not, Liz Taylor knew something about men. Eight Marriages, not engagements, speaks for itself and that tells me, Liz absolutely knew something about men.

That’s why I named this, Liz. I respect Elizabeth Taylor, as an actress but more as a woman. It is not easy to do you while folks talk smack but she did anyway. Who knows what Spirit showed her about herself or her spouses? I know one thing, whatever it was, Liz wasn’t afraid to go for it or get the hell on… and that, I respect. Elizabeth Taylor showed women to live life on their own terms. I wonder how many women actually got that message? I absolutely get it, relationships are to show you, you. Sometimes, you are the wolf in sheep’s clothing. How’s that for truth?

I’ve been in plenty of relationships, married older and younger men. Men are simply men. I know each relationship will teach me, a truth about myself. I accept it, find the lesson, then move on. I appreciate the lesson and those that taught it to me. I don’t get stuck there. I don’t hate any ex. What for? Some of y’all have had a divorce and let the experience crush and paralyze you. Why? What stopped you from love? Mad, hurt, petty and still bitter…Why? Ever notice how Liz always kept it pushing? Who told you that you were going to stay with any person forever? Or that things will always be fair? Change your perception. We are here to self-correct and grow. People leave and things are unfair. So what? That’s life, sh*t happens. That person was supposed to teach you some things about yourself, you could/would not see. Nothing more. Get over yourself!

Everything else is a gift. If it last for a long or short period of time, great. Appreciate it all regardless. The gift is in the lesson. The negative and positive experiences are both needed to evolve. Balance. Read the article, “Balance” click link here, Balance The lesson is about yourself. You are here to master, YOU. Did you get it? Good. How did that become a bad thing? I’m an Educator, learning should never viewed as bad. It’s always about expansion and life. Life isn’t personal. I guarantee, if you change how you are viewing it all, you’ll heal a lot quicker. Read the article, “The Gift” click link here, The Gift

Good or bad, relationships, are meant to help me, learn more about myself. Nothing more. I was supposed to have fun learning it along the way. Not becoming bitter, hurt or living in some deep regret. I regret no relationship ever… if it’s a duck, oh well, it’s a duck. Better luck next time. “But you ain’t stopping me, Boo. You can be a clown by your damn self, must mean, something in me was broken, so I liked clowns at that time. Let me act like Liz and get the hell on.” That’s life people. I trust Spirit no matter what. Do you? I have learned to appreciate the people that taught me the lesson. They were fulfilling their soul contract with me. If I’d skipped all of the challenges, how else could I have learned? How freaking cool is that? Nothing is in vain. What if your enemy was really your best friend fulfilling the contract to help your soul evolve? I don’t have to hate anyone. It’s always a choice. Think outside the box people.

Ask Source for help in seeing things from a different angle. Ascend. Maybe, we just need to change our perception about life. We could have it all wrong causing ourselves, unnecessary suffering. That shift has freed me from giving two sh*ts on what society says, about life, relationships, marriage and the expectations of others. Figure out what works best for you. Stop letting others define you…and, how can any miserable person judge anyone? They’re too afraid to change their own lives. Please. To them, I kindly say, “Excuse me honey, go sit down somewhere.” In life, you can always change lanes. You’re no victim. Shift gears, by changing your perspective. I enjoy life and set my own rules. I’ve found out that attitude bothers a whole lot of suckers. Guess what? I could careless. They watch, Me…it’s never, vice versa.

I like traditions but I’m not bound by them, things that make no sense, will never cage me. I trust myself and Spirit. Others can miss me with their rules and expectations. I do me, regardless...(more slang). I’ve learned the hard way, doing things because others have done it that way, can get you in a lot of trouble. I certainly respect Liz’s gangster all day. Yes, that’s slang also dear. Plus, a woman that can get men to marry her, as many times, as Liz has, proves she knew something all women should know. Isn’t it funny, what society says and deems failure to be? Be careful going along with things that make no darn sense. Learn to think for yourselves.

To me, Liz did the damn thing. Liz was certainly what I call, wifey material all day. Read the article, “Wifey Material” click link here, WiFEY MATERIAL She played by her own rules…and I love that about her. I love knowing Spirit has my back no matter what. I also know that bothers and threatens insecure women and men. That boldness can be mistaken as cocky when it’s not. Read the article, “Cocky” click link here, Cocky I’m sure about The Divine’s love for me. And, because I love me, I can always change my mind. I’m never stuck or trapped. I do things on my terms only. I’m not afraid of people, relationships, failure or love. I heal and move on happily. Oddly, that has bothered a few men in my life. I just shake my head and keep it moving. Who has time for the foolishness? I speak my truth and walk away from liars.

Only one thing is for certain, “You will need to trust Spirit, to guide you through life.” There ain’t no way around it. When a wolf is revealed to you, it’s usually harder to accept because it’s likely, someone pretty close to you. Try not to get stuck in that. See it for what it is. I’ve been through that all of my life. I’m willing to bet that Liz has too. In cases like that, you need Spirit to show you the way out. It is painful accepting truth about the people we love, but Spirit always reveals, whose heart is no longer for you. When Spirit tells you something, listen…please don’t ignore it. You can trust it. Ask for discernment. It matters.

I wish we didn’t care so much about other people opinion’s, but we all do. Liz may have suffered caring about the opinion of others but she didn’t let it stop her. That’s to be admired. Master that same approach for yourself. Never let the opinion of others stop you, from doing what is best for you. Chill on doing things, without integrity. It’s usually attached to the thief…who comes to steal, kill and destroy you somewhere down the line. Spirit is what protects you from the deceiver. How else will you know, when someone or something has studied you, in order to deceive you? You will talk to Source and try the spirit by the spirit. If it’s being offered by the false prophet, don’t accept it. It’s a trap. Spirit has granted us the liberty to switch lanes and change our minds. I too have accepted the false prophets that have come along. When I awakened, I refused their cup. You can literally go in a new different direction. Who cares if others don’t like that you’ve changed your mind. You only owe it to yourself, to be true to you and look out for you. That’s Self-Love and it’s not attached to using others, stepping on people or their feelings to get ahead. Integrity and character will always matter. That’s how one “Tries the spirit, by the Spirit.” Does it align with truth? If it does not, don’t accept it. Read the article, “Self Love” click link here, https://triddykat.com/self-love

A lot of us are surrounded by wolves in sheep’s clothing. If it leaves one in a state of confusion, it’s an illusion. Be mindful. If it’s a duck, it’s a duck. Accept it’s a duck and move on. Come on now, we’ve got to stop playing, stupid. Y’all don’t need me to tell you that. We all know not to accept a cup from an enemy. “It’s poison.” Wake your butt up, you know when that mess ain’t for you. It won’t feel right, no matter what. Go with that feeling, investigate why you feel that way. Do what you want…just know, “Everything that glitters, ain’t gold.”

People talk about Elizabeth Taylor’s relationships as if she failed. I view her completely opposite. I view her as courageous. She wasn’t afraid of life…that’s a winner, in my book. It doesn’t matter what others say, what do you say? You were given common sense, you must learn to use it. Stop asking others and go to Source. Most of the people talking smack, are the ones living in fear, that’s why they’re talking, instead of doing. Common sense, right? But I’ve found out that common sense, isn’t always that common. Wink.

If it’s not built in integrity or lacks character..It’s not real, people, it won’t last or stand. Good, don’t accept an illusion. It’s a trap. A test to see if you’ll settle for less than what you really deserve. The wheat is being separated from the tare, people. Only accept and go for the real. You won’t be waiting for long. Read the article, “The Test” click link here, The Test In the meantime folks, you’re supposed to be having fun, enjoying and living your life. Hmm, Are you? Smile.

Keep shining.

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