Are you a spiritual punk or soldier? Sometimes, I wonder if we truly get the reason, for all of our relationships, truthfully, they are all the same. Some are just more intimate, than others. Would you still get in that relationship, if you knew “beforehand” it was only designed to teach you, something about yourself? That it was basically, a “development tool” from the Universe.
Could be, designed to show you, how ugly “you” treat people. A lot of us don’t get that the person that hurt you the most, was likely your shadow side of yourself, reflecting back at you… darker things, you need to acknowledge in Self. Maybe, you need to open your “heart chakra” and until then, you hadn’t noticed, how emotionally unavailable, you were in relationships.
Others could be designed to show you that…that weakness, you thought you’d mastered, etc. hasn’t truly been mastered yet. Cool, so now you know to go work on it. You’re spiritual beings, some are even spiritual soldiers, (especially Capricorns)..so, go do the work on you and move on.
No relationship is truly bad.. they all leave us with a new experience “gained” in the end. Guess what, if you do not realize the lesson in it, you get to do it all over again. How’s that for motivation?
Think on how much quicker those nursing a “broken heart” or holding on to past resentments, would learn to just let it go and forgive and decide to heal…move on with with their lives. Read the article, “Move On” click link here, https://triddykat.com/move-on
If they only realized, they’re viewing it all skewed. No one has taught us this, so we’re bumping our freaking heads, stressed out and depressed, over nothing but life lessons.
Forgiveness, doesn’t mean you have to get back with that person that “hurt” or misused or betrayed you. Forgiveness is so you don’t block your energy. Don’t ever block yourself from co-creating and manifesting.
Un-forgiveness blocks energy. You can’t create in that. So release it.
What if the Universe could come tell you personally that your last relationship, the one that truly devastated you, was not designed to break you down at all, it was only designed for you to master “self love“ within?…hold on to the “lesson” in it only, not the person or pain caused by them, so that “you” could learn to treat “you” better and not allow people that cause you that kind of pain in your circle, to seduce you, in to having relationships, with their type again. That’s it.
Developing “SELF LOVE” changes the game because that’s your “super” power… Once you’ve learned to treat “You” better…You become aware and won’t allow others, to treat you bad .. so you can stop attracting, users or takers. There are no victims in relationships, we all “willingly” play the role of the perpetrator or the victim. You can always leave whenever you, want to.
Isn’t that neat?
None of your relationships, are truly a bad thing, if only you’d simply change your view on it …see them as the “lessons” they truly are, nothing more….you could heal a broken heart, a whole lot quicker and move forward, with your life.
I know that’s much easier said, than done. But I promise you, changing your perspective, can and will “free you.” Read the article, “Free” click link here, https://triddykat.com/free
Why don’t you try that and see if that, helps you move on, instead of reliving the pain over and over, in your mind, missing the entire lesson in it and feeling trapped. You’re not.
You’re never trapped or stuck. You’re only mentally stuck. You’re hurting and didn’t know there was a way out of that despair. It lies within. How about you forgive yourself now and most of all, you, now “free” yourself from that mental prison?
Everything will be fine, relax…try smiling again. You just weren’t taught, the things you really needed to know, to navigate, life.
But you’ve got it now, baby.
Go soar!
*This was originally, written & created by, TRIDDY KAT® on September 24, 2017. Updated 1/24/23
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~Triddy Kat 💋
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