Cycles

Thirty years ago, I dreamed of things I had no idea what it meant. Today, I understand it all. I have no problem being the only person that likes something. How about y’all? People will talk all day, let them…Keep doing you. I take lemons and make lemonade. I tell those same people that talked smack about me, to kiss it where the sun dosen’t shine. Ain’t nothing stopping me. Slang.

The same people that talked about me while I was out doing my own thing, are all stuck in a box, all looking just like, “Cookie Cutters.” I stopped giving fakes, love. Once you’re restored there is no need to be mad or bitter. If they refuse to do their inner work, leave them alone. No matter the title, leave it alone. I took my heart back and doted on myself. Best decision ever. Sigh.

When people in life don’t appreciate your presence draw boundaries and give them your absence. Love yourself enough to walk away and shut that cycle down. I’ve had people (family) lie on me & say, “I must be doing something illegal, no it’s just called intelligence, nobility & hard work. I’m excellent with money and I’m 100% legit. I don’t scam, steal or engage in fraud or fraudulent people. I work hard legally for everything…and, I come up with a plan to get what I want, legally. Every dime that I make is legit but haters that can’t get the same results will lie on you quick. So you’ve got to watch them. They are usually the first ones to create rumors and spread lies. I cut ’em off and keep it pushing. I don’t explain sh*t. I don’t care what envious people think about me. They can all kiss my *ss . Make no time for those slandering you. Eventually all will realize, they were lying on you out of pure envy. Explain nothing. Whomever believes them and never asked you, isn’t worthy of your time either.

 “Hit dogs holler the loudest.” But, oh well. Once you’ve earnestly tried to communicate in order to resolve an issue but can not…leave it alone. If no solution is being offered, shut it down or it will distract you, by depleting your energy. Don’t engage any further. Bump them. Move forward.

I have learned to accept all cycles, enjoying the good ones as much as the difficult ones. The cycles are one and the same, different but really alike. It’s still all good. It’s like Jonae Monae says, “Even back then, with the tears in my eyes, I always knew I was the sh*t.“ You’ve got to know who you are, with or without. Who are you? Money can’t buy Integrity and Character, you either have it or you don’t. Who cares what people have to say? It doesn’t hold as much weight as you think. Stop giving people that can’t last a day wearing your shoes, power over you. What they think doesn’t matter. It’s only what you think that matters. Can you face you in the mirror? Have you sold your soul? If not, kick back and relax, everything is going just as it should. Remember, they’re all watching you. It’s not vice versa. Wink.

Sometimes, I show proof of things I’ve endured, just to shut up, a nay sayer. The cover picture is of my first home that I had built…I literally went to the design center and picked out everything, not bad huh? This was almost 20 years ago. It was so freaking cool. This is the first home I ever owned, it represented a good cycle. The bad was this was during the collapse of the housing market. Most ordinary people, got suckered with adjustable rate mortgages, so I said,“Oh well.” I was forced to adapt and embrace change. The next cycle was here…and there was nothing, I could do about it because I refused to do the work. I refused to look at and see what the Universe was showing me. I was surrounded by people (family, lovers & friends) that did not have my best interest at heart. I continued to ignore the truth until it came in and shut it all down. The truth dog walks you, if you keep ignoring it. The truth came in whether I liked it or not. Shedding light that I had trusted some very foul people. Now, I pay people playing games, no mind.

Tangible evidence bothers nay sayers. It kills them when “Your Truth” (proof) contradicts their lies. Just SMILE at them cause it will all speak volumes for itself. Recognize, life is nothing but cycles, we have to embrace it all. Master the cycles, figure out how to ride the waves. You will be up and you will be down. Learn to expect it. Ride the wave until you get back on the up swing. That’s life. Fulfill your destiny no matter what. I expect happy times, just as much as I expect difficult times too. Expect and accept both. Source hasn’t let me down, yet. I know now, it’s always about expansion, so I endure. The cycles showed me who was truly on my team and who was not. What a difference, knowing the truth has made. It cleared paths to move forward without the baggage. It’s all good. I laugh and love. I’ve learned to love those that are toxic from a distance.

Let haters, hate. That’s their job. Your job is to take all of that negative energy thrown at you …and transform it, alchemically. Do you truly know who you are? If you did, you’d stop looking at distractions and learn more about YOU. The negative energy sent at you is to transmute. So what. Stop crying and transform. “Be ye renewed and transform by renewing your mind.“ Stop complaining and go do the work on yourself. When you’re healed you stop giving a damn about a fool you’ve encountered. A lot of people don’t understand scriptures because they aren’t seeking the Creator, wholeheartedly. “Seek ye first the kingdom of God “…that’s the key to life..Source. The word will not come back void. Resist thinking we can fully, live our lives, without Source. 

Change the way you think. “As a man thinketh, so is He.” Your thinking can hinder you. Your mindset could be all wrong but nothing is being done about it. If you don’t like your results in life, what are you doing about it? Please know that no-one is coming to save you. That’s a fairy tale… You are to save you. Pray, meditate, then get up and go do whatever it is, the Creator places in your heart, to do, to change your life. Life will throw us, unexpected curve balls, that’s okay too because it’s the Game of Life…adapt. We all will face starting over at different times in our lives. Go with the flow. That’s evolution, it’s all about adapting. Stop whining and get about your business. Do what you can, with what you have. That’s how you implement the practical and it works. Do your inner work and heal. “Changing your mind, can and will change your Life.” It’s just that simple. Be glad that you didn’t get everything that you’ve prayed for, it would’ve killed you. 

I’ve lost it all and started over, again and again and I still believe and say, “That’s life.“ I avoid and stay away from people that try to make me think: Change is a bad thing because I know that it’s not. It’s inevitable and the very essence of Source. Step outside the box. I do me, unapologetically. There is nothing personal about life, it just is. Stop stressing over what was, it is, what it is now, accept it. Change your perspective. Faulty foundations come down. Be glad that they do. Source’s rejection was certainly the only way to protect you at the time because you could not see beyond the veil . Believe in Love, it’s the only thing real… it doesn’t make you a sucker.  The cover picture of this article-that’s my oldest posing in front of our house, before the down swing…Life happens to us, all, people… get over it!

Keep shining. 

~ Triddy Kat 💋

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