Ever have someone play you to the left just because they thought they could? That’s slang guys for someone fronting on you or treating you funny. People like that, I don’t take serious…too superficial and won’t stand the test of time. I love the TV show, Undercover Boss‘ theme…it’s where the boss comes incognito, to get a better view of the employees being themselves and snapshot of the company.
I swear, I think we all need to take a page out of their book when it comes to vetting people, before we allow them access, into our lives or our inner circle. It’s sort of like being a fly on the wall. I have screened lots of people, using this simple technique…it’s quite effective on exposing the character or lack of in certain individuals. You’d be surprised to see how some people treat other people, when they think they have more or less than them. Some are quite mean, others aren’t. We could learn a lot going “Undercover Boss” on folks.
I won’t preach and will end it here…I’m finished. Y’all get it. Read the article, “Finished” click link here, Finished
Just a friendly reminder…“Be careful when entertaining strangers, in doing so, some have entertained Angels and didn’t even know it.”
My question: How many of us have entertained a Divine Being unaware? Maybe, we should treat all, decent and kind, just because…huh? Wink.
Being you is where it’s at people. Slang. There is nothing better than you, just doing you…sure it will cause haters to hate but who cares what others think? That’s their problem, please leave it right there with them. Do you acceptyou? Great because that’s really all that truly matters…so Go Do “You” boldly.
Here’s another pic of the color…I’ll “enjoy” the Summer in. The cover photo is my hair too (no weave or hair extensions) but you can see the color better. It’s really intense but so amI…We’re Perfect together! Smile.
Triddy Kat—Me, looking at my hair in my phone…Ha, so vain but oh well…”I love it!!!” LOL
Just sharing it with you guys. The color is HOTTT! And, yes, I know that’s the wrong spelling and grammar usage…which is fine because I make my own rules here. I’m so “ASLAN” (Chronicles of Narnia). Laughing really hard.
Anywhooo, I truly believe colormakes hair POP. I love it all and always keep my eyes out to set a newer trend. That’s likely that “Leo” in me… Y’all gotta admit, these pics of my latest hair color (which I’ll call “Fire“) is absolutely, aLIONESSthing! Wink.
Hey, I’m doing me…. are you, doing you?? I sure hope so.
Life is better than good.
**Flashback- I rocked this color in my hair too (previous summer)….no weave or hair extensions. Now, this is RED, guys…LOL!
If someone were to ask you about the catalyst in your life, could you answer, truthfully? It’s the very thing (person or events) that caused rapid change in you or your circumstances. All of us have had them. So, do you recognize the “catalyst” in your life? I love Merriam-Webster’s definition of this word: An agent that provokes or speeds significant change or action; Catalyst. Read the article, “Agent of Chaos” click link here, Agent of Chaos
Now, the Science Geek in me loves the next definition, best…A substance that enables a chemical reaction to proceed at a usually faster rate or under different conditions (as at a lower temperature) than otherwise possible. That’s so freaking deep to me guys, a substance that enables a chemical reaction to go faster than normal. I’m of the Fire element and taught Middle School Science (which I absolutely still love)… so, the picture my mind’s eye instantly created, by thinking on this, blew my mind. Which is why I love Science because I know I’m dealing with Source. A Divine Catalyst to me.
Anywhoo…I thought on this some more and said, “Wow, so the temperature change matters a whole lot here.” That’s amazing guys. I thought about this all day. In normal conditions, the change would likely occur at a slower rate but the substance enabled the chemical reaction process to speed up. I’m sorry but “Hot Damn Guys, that’s nothing but SCIENCE!!” I know those of the Fire element are usually about taking action…our Fire is passion. So this catalyst enables us to move through something faster than we would normally huh? Now, I reflected over my life and could see every catalyst, as clear as day. Isn’t that just like God? Wink.
All of the people and events helped change me at a faster rate and Source used those of the dark and light, to get me where I needed to be, quicker. Hot Damn!! Proving that nothing in my life was in vain. All of my experiences, good or bad, pleasure or pain were designed to move me along my path to my destiny. How freaking fly is that? Nothing you went through guys was wasted. It was a catalyst to help you move along.
If you ever feel stuck, go back and quickly look at where you took a different path…I bet there was a person or event that influenced your decision. A catalyst. If you don’t like where you are right now…think on those steps and decide from now on, to do something different.
How about you become your own catalyst now, by simply changing your mind?
How a person ends a relationship is very telling…I can only recommend one avoid relationships with warmongers. It’s an emotionally taxing experience, to say the least. A warmonger is defined: one who urges or attempts to stir up war…Dealing with people that aren’t healed is almost certainly asking for war.
I can recall being in relationships and playing the part of the warmonger. I was a mess, y’all. Jezebel Clan member for real. Lol. God forgive me. Hey, we live and learn, I got love for all of my exes. I also hold no grudges, I chalked it all up to the game. It’s Life. Read the article, “Jezebel Clan” click link here, Jezebel Clan
Most of us, will be the warmonger, at some point in our lives until we emotionally mature. Another word often used to describe a warmonger is karmic. A karmic is usually the person you’re constantly fighting with in a relationship or y’all are likely fighting, having trouble releasing/shutting down a toxic relationship. If you’ve ever been in one, you’d know how exhausting it really is. For example, you guys break up, then get back together, over and over again. That’s a karmic cycle. Truth be told, it’s not supposed to work anymore…it was just a lesson to be learned. Nothing more. Stop taking things so personal and move on. When we don’t know that, we go back trying to make it work. Working on the same old mess again and again. LOL.
Hey, I’ve been there and all I can say is, “Thank God” when it’s officially over. A lot of people leave upset, bitter and vengeful. Guess what, those people are going right back in for another round because they haven’t learned their lesson.
The lesson is: walk your butt away without accumulating more karmic debt. Who cares who did what? If it’s over, it’s over, so leave it alone. The moment you setyour intentions to fix someone (slang) you’ve fixed, yourself. A lot of men need to hear this because they do this one much better than women. It’s when one purposely gets back with an ex, just to dump them, again.. A Fool, is all I can call one that uses this tactic. You may have been done wrong but as soon as you go back in to play that person, you’ve accumulated karmic debt. Not smart. You are now the warmonger. Good luck with that, you will need it.
I often laugh when people describe other people as karmic because all of us, have or will play the role in someone’s life as the karmic. Believe it or not, a karmic person is only there to teach you an important lesson about yourself. Example, let’s say that you were full of lust and cheat all the time…Guess what, the karmic you’ve attracted to yourself, was only mirroring that same energy back to you. A perfect reflection of yourself, a warmonger. Stirring up a war in the relationship, just to get you to see yourself.
When you work on yourself and heal, you begin to move different. That’s more slang. We love to point fingers but we must realize the people in our lives are only reflecting us, back to us. I realized this and began to make cuts…I no longer wanted to affiliate with shady folk. It was too burdensome. And, I wanted no more connections to warmongers…being attached to them, kept me attached to their karmic debt. Hell no. I work too hard on improving myself, so I’ll quickly head for the hills! LOL.
Now, I look discerningly at who is worthy to be in my circle or not. Many get offended but I could care less, keep your messy self over there. Laughing really hard. Get real, if you don’t/won’t do the work on you, you are deemed unworthy to dwell in my space. Period. I’ve worked too hard to allow slackers to taint my mind or space. No warmongers allowed. Be mindful guys, they’re wolves in sheep’s clothing…cock blockers, seeking to spread their cup of misery. They ain’t no joke. Shut ’em down. Slang. Read the article, “Cock Blocker” click link here, COCK BLOCKER
Be picky guys. Let people get mad enough to change their trifling ways or tell them to kick rocks. You deserve their best only because you’re bringing them, your best. Stand firm on that. Self Love won’t allow the mind games and bs that accompany those needing to heal. Let jokers find somebody to play with…just don’t let that somebody, be you. Wink. Read the article, “Self Love” click link here, https://triddykat.com/self-love
There is a time and place for everything but warmongers don’t belong in personal relationships with you…it’s too much of a headache. God knows they don’t have enough aspirin for that. Lol. Negro please. Read the article, “Negro Please” click link here, https://triddykat.com/negro-please
I heard and borrowed this word today, after hearing, President Biden use one word to describe, America. Possibilities is defined- the condition or fact of being possible. I thought a little longer on his word choice and admitted to myself, I couldn’t agree with the President more. As the world watched, the First Black Woman confirmed to The Supreme Court, Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson… I felt an enormous sense of pride. My pride was not only the obvious, being a black woman but for being an American Woman…and for our country itself.
I often say, “Being born a woman in America is truly a blessing.” I don’t really care who agrees with me or not. I am extremely proud to be a Black Woman in America. Witnessing, Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson’s speech today was simply beautiful. A little piece of history for me to treasure. I also appreciated her reference to Maya Angelou…Her being, “The dream of the Slave.” I thought that was so powerful and humbling at the same time. Possibilities.
Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson was correct stating that she didn’t get there alone. Source makes a way…and plenty have paved the way for her to make history today. “No one is an island.” Possibilities was the perfect word choice…I watched Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson make history, as the first black woman confirmed to The Supreme Court…thinking Yes, anything is possible in the land of possibilities.
Thank you for reminding of us that today, Mr. President…and Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson. Sometimes we need reminders. God Bless America.
Congratulations to you,“Justice, Ketanji Brown Jackson”… I and many others are super proud of you.
Bitter deep-seated ill will. Most people know it’s dangerous to envy others. That’s why most people try to conceal their rancor of another but it usually rears its head in the end. My advice to all, don’t even sweat it. Slang.
I used to get upset whenever I’d find out that someone I loved, had rancor towards me…I mean, I would literally get all up in my feelings…thinking, not this person, “That’s my ___.” I’ll let y’all fill in the blank.
Now, I pay it no mind. Slang. I have learned to accept it all as a part of the journey and I keep it pushing. That’s more slang, guys. It’s not my job to fix or please others. That’s on them. I’m too busy focusing on improving me…How’s that?
When you find out that others have feelings of rancor towards you…say nothing. They will deny it anyway. But…Who cares? The real kicker will be when you find out that there are a few people that you don’t even know, that have feelings of rancor towards you too. LOL.
Again, I’ll ask you, “Who cares?” As we love to say in the hood, “You must be doing something right”..So, keep doing you!
“One of those days when the Sun is shining bright and my life is going right and the simple things are not wasted.” That’s a verse, borrowed from the late Songstress, Whitney Houston, whom I thought was one of the best to ever sing. One of those days is the song that I ride to, left on repeat. That’s slang guys, for driving and playing a perfect tune on a beautiful day…whatever that is to you. One of those days where absolutely nothing is wasted.
So, today my friends, I implore you take time to reflect on your lives and make sure there is no experience, wasted. Each day, awaken and ask yourselves…“What in life am I wasting? For nothing has been in vain my dear friends, every single thing was to help your soul evolve. How freaking wonderful is that? No experience was meant to harm you, although, growth can indeed, be painful. What if I told you…It was all designed for our soul’s evolution only. Smile.
Every single tear that you’ve ever cried, was only to help you, heal your soul. Crying is a form of release, of our deep, suppressed emotions. I truly believe that it’s dangerous for mankind to suppress our emotions, it’s crucial to find healthy ways, to express ourselves. Basically people, I’m suggesting, that we Feel our feelings, folks.” One of those days that we all need.
Embrace that you are blessed to dwell amongst the living. And never be embarrassed for anything that life has thrown at you…it’s all, just experience, our life lessons. Life is not personal, please stop viewing it that way… And, watch how quickly you’ll release burdens. One of those days, for me, is when you awaken to the mere fact, that you are no mistake… and, that no one and no thing, could ever stop you…Your Destiny awaits!
The experiences, we all have in life, were only meant to induce our personal growth, rebirthing us, into the best version of Ourselves. It’s what the Divine intended. We’re meant to soar and when it’s all said and done, no one can take credit, for you, doing all of the hard work to heal. Becoming the very best version of YOU. One of those days…where the Sun is shining bright. Life is going right. Sigh.
Now, how cool is that, knowing,You are right where you need to be, to see that the “Present” is one of those days, when your life is going right and the simple things are not wasted. Isn’t it Magnificent? Wink. Read the article, “Magnificent” click link here, https://triddykat.com/magnificent
Can you remember the last time, you’ve achieved two things by completing one task? I like to call those, “Stones.” Instantly, I am reminded of the metaphor, “Killing two birds with one stone.” Basically, it’s whenever one is achieving two things, at once. For instance, grabbing something to eat while I run to the gas station, filling up, on my way to work.
I remember, working really hard on a creative project and had no idea this malicious person, whom was once close to me, was doing all sorts of things behind my back. They were literally sabotaging me, illegally, using all of my intellectual property. Passing it off, as their own. They were greedy and extremely jealous…trying to take the credit, for my ideas. This type of person is a doppelgänger, in disguise…a cock- blocker. Read article “Cock blocker” click link here, COCK BLOCKER That’s what unhealed people do…they pretend… and, they project their own personal issues off on to others…especially, on to that person, they’re the most envious of. They’re Fugazi. Read article,” Fugazi” click link here, https://triddykat.com/fugazi/
This is why Self Love is important. Read article, “Self” click link here, Self It illuminates all confusion and exposes the evil doppelgängers around you. Read article, “Agent of Chaos” click link here, Agent of Chaos My advice: Let the Divine handle it. They need help and are the ones that are throwing stones, hiding their hands. Yet, that’s still between them and Source. They are unhealed and broken. Leave that there with them because nothing they have tried, will stop you.
Use discernment and always take heed to Sources’ instruction. I worked hard and by doing so, it allowed me to kill, two birds with one stone. I couldn’t be duplicated, or imitated, so those that tried, exposed themselves in doing so…while, I got to perfect my craft. Stones. Read article, “Imitation” click link here, https://triddykat.com/imitation/
Nothing done in the dark, shall remain unseen. Nothing. Trust Source. Be about your business and stay focused on your intended goal…healing.Wink.
Pay attention…Watch how those same stones that were sent out to harm you, later return, to hit the one, that was cloaked and originally sending it…all whilst, you’ve made a path out of those very stones…moving forward, walking along on, because…Nothing has been in vain. Stones.
It was all a part of the Divine’s plan for you.
Be careful, throwing Stones…better yet… Yell out, “Duck!”
“Never look a gift horse in the mouth!” I’m convinced this idiom, came from those recognizing that they’d misjudged someone or something, completely wrong. In fact, I’m willing to bet they were blessed with what was supposed to help them in a particular situation (or out of a crisis) but they realized it too late. Be careful, turning your nose up to what is meant to help and teach you an important life lesson. It was likely your, Gift Horse.
Gifts don’t always come wrapped or in the packaging, we think they should. It’s important to notice Divine intervention…Could it be, that Spirit sent help but one couldn’t recognize it at the time? I recall a time I needed help and when it appeared, it was completely opposite of what I imagined it would be…But it was exactly what I needed (and asked for) to get out of a very sticky situation. It was my gift horse…so instead of focusing on its flaws or imperfections..I choose to focus and set my sight on Divineassistance being sent. Notice, I said that “I choose” because it was a choice, to view it as help or a problem. Read the article, “Divine Interaction” click link here, Divine Interaction
The choice is always yours and it’s usually a part of your lesson…it’s to help you, change your perspective. I choose to stay grateful for help in a crisis, which made the imperfections, minute. So when things arose that I didn’t like, I reminded myself to be careful of treating a gift horse wrong…because I didn’t want to offend, the Sender. I saw it as a character test. Read the article, “The Test” click link here, The Test My gift horse wasn’t in any way perfect guys, in fact, if I hadn’t changed my perception…I would’ve likely missed it because it was disguised and clothed in me having to use discernment…I saw it gazing through the eyes of wisdom. There, I discovered that it was perfected just for me, being exactly what was needed in perfect timing. Read “Perfect” link here, https://triddykat.com/perfect
How people treat those, they think they don’t need, speaks volumes...and, how people behave, when no one is looking, shows integrity or their lack of. All of it matters.
Source doesn’t care what the solution is wrapped in, as long as it will bring about the desired result. So what have you been gifted, that you chucked and thought nothing more of…only to realize later on, that it was exactly what you’d been praying for? Ask yourself…were you too distracted by the wrapping paper? Probably. Hey, it happens…it’s life, don’t beat yourself up. Just learn the lesson on one being so superficial that you miss the blessing.
Next time, pay more attention to the contents…and, Make sure they have what matters when deeming someone worthy on things like, moral, character and integrity that should’ve held much more weight over the wrapping paper, in the first place. Wink.
Something that you prayed for could be right there, hiding in plain sight but you’re missing it completely. By focusing much too long, on the wrapping. It’s the answer to your prayers…your answered prayer…Source has sent you,Your Gift Horse, lucky you…You’re blessed!! Read the article, “Blessed” click link here, https://triddykat.com/blessedUpdated 1/24/23
Who’s afraid of the Big Bad Wolf? …a song composed in the 30s by Ann Ronell and Frank Churchill…”Not I” said the three little__. I will leave that blank for y’all to fill in. Remember, how we used to do those type of assignments in school? Where we’re given parts of the information and we’d have to fill in the blanks with information given as multiple choice or information that we were previously taught. Those assignments are called, “Cloze” activity. Y’all know the Educator in me, will always teach.
Monsters are real, people…please believe it. That’s slang. Monsters look just like you and I, that’s what they didn’t teach us in school. Yet, life has taught us that monsters can come disguised as friends, family, and lovers also. We teach our children about stranger danger…but you better teach them about the monsters that are amongst them in their daily lives, in their own bloodline and home. Teach them about real monsters. Like the group of fraud, con artist, and scammers that I spoke on in Afflicted. Those group of criminals are really monsters, out committing crimes against humanity , preying on their communities while corrupt officials purposely look the other way. Read the article, “Afflicted” click link here, https://triddykat.com/afflicted
I appreciate my enemies even more now because they were the ones that taught me, Monsters really do exist… and, they attach themselves to weaker vessels, faster than a New York minute.
One must be careful sleeping with or playing with those that stay in lower vibrations…because you’re now, the easiest to overtake. You’ve literally given these Monsters, your sexual energy to use against you. Why would you do that? I’ve had to literally go celibate on folks, they were lying on me crazy. So now what…it’s been a year so far and counting. Once, I learned the truth, I backed up and made the necessary changes, asap. I literally had someone that was acting a pure fool, in the streets. That’s on them. I am only responsible for what I act like, no one else. That Monster behavior ain’t for me boo…so I fell back. Slang
Sorry but you ain’t bringing all of that bad energy to me. I shut it all down, asap. I don’t care who anyone wants to be with instead. I ain’t with it. Slang. I wish people well but I love me, more. I want no parts of foolishness. I’m good. Slang. I also went celibate to break off any spiritual connection, soul tie or bond. I don’t care who you are, If it’s a monster, I’ll pass. Slang. Bump a marriage. I don’t want it. I kindly asked for my divorce and keep it pushing. I haven’t started dating again, yet but I am very single and about to. I just prefer to do things, decent and in order. That’s also to call out all of the liars, spreading bs with no receipts. But… Haters will try anything, now won’t they? Wink.
Because gross negligence and corruption has continually blocked, my finances, I’ve had to wait for the other party, to go file for the divorce. I’m still waiting. I don’t care what others think or feel about that, it’s not up for discussion. I’m not putting myself at risk to be/stay with anyone. I, “Gave it back to the streets.” I didn’t sign up for drama. I refuse to willingly, play with devils. Slang. I don’t partner up with those that are operating in their low vibrational energy. That is a spiritual attack launched against you. I don’t do it. I say, “Don’t eat or drink anything from them either.” It’s just not worth taking the risk, you can’t trust it. We’re to be wise as serpents. Protect yourselves from the wolves amongst sheep. Until you wake up…Guess who the sheep is? YOU!!
Look at their behavior, you will know who is low vibrational around you….they have multiple sex partners and are always lying and juggling people and relationships. They are reckless with their lives and others. That mess is nothing but pure confusion and chaos. They’re always in some sort of drama. They’re attached to lack, which is true poverty, because it will lead to sickness and death in you and your lifestyle. So pay close attention to who you’ve allowed in your life. I took back an ex, he brought nothing but drama along with him. He was cursed because of how he was out there treating women. Taking advantage of them, so me looking out for him, attached me to his bad karma but I didn’t know it… because he was lying about what, he was really out there doing to others, in relationships. He was really lying, cheating and stealing people’s energy from them. See how that works? We must wake up to the bs.
The curse is attached to whomever, you start to take those losses with. Look at it like this, You were doing good for yourself and then, you let this person in your life. Suddenly, things start going wrong for you and now you’re declining? You’re likely attached to a monster. A destroyer, has come in and you may not know it. They kill your dreams and any potential at fulfilling them. Detach and pull your energy back from them, immediately. They have negative karma to clear. There is no way around it. You can’t trust people like that. They are running, trying to avoid doing the work on themselves and healing. They don’t love themselves until they heal. So how could/would you expect them to protect themselves or you in any way, especially sexually? That’s extremely dangerous. Stop lying to yourselves and wake up. They’re nothing more than tricksters. Monsters. Let it go. Don’t ever sweat monsters, folks. Read the article, “Trickster” click link here, https://triddykat.com/trickster
Self Love is a must…when one loves his or her self, one protects oneself. Period. One will not tear others down, purposely trying to cheat, deceive, lie or hurt them…Self Love wouldn’t allow it.
So y’all already know, if the person lacks in self-love, you’re to be cautious of danger. Pull your energy back. You can’t build with people that lack self-love because anything goes. They lack self control and discipline, that’s why they are always out cheating and creeping. Stop getting mad with people like that…”Let a cheater, cheat in peace.” BUT..Protect yourself from them. You are to remove your energy from them. Who cares if they will sleep with someone else? So…They are likely out doing it anyway, you just don’t know about it. Who cares? Who wants that? Ewww. They are for the streets, so give them back to the streets…and, sleep easy. Read the article, “For the streets” click link here, For the Streets They have to grow up people. They’re not ready for anything serious. It’s nothing more than a good time. Be careful, a cut buddy can be nothing more than a painful lesson, in why you are to love yourself more. Be mindful, it’s playing with a monster.
Now, don’t get all mad. Look at yourself first, you’ve had to be in that same low energy, at one point in time too, to even have attracted them. Cool, now that you know better, do better. That’s it. Don’t judge it, just protect yourself on all levels. Detach. They need to grow up but you better not let it be at your expense. Subconsciously, some aren’t even aware that they have an unclean spirit attached to them. No one taught us about this stuff growing up. Especially, about transferring spirits. Menage a trios are the easiest way to do it because that’s invoking succubus/ incubus energy. I don’t engage in that ever and never have but to each, its own.
A whole lot of people have that Jezebel Spirit in them. They are being sent at their target, to take them off their path and lead them down the wrong path. Sex is still the favorite weapon of the enemy. If they can get you, to go against yourself, they’ve got you. I’m not trying to scare y’all, just sharing to help us spiritually fight back the monsters. Always try the Spirit, by the Spirit. Read the article, “Self Love” click link here, https://triddykat.com/self-love
So who is the monster(s) in your life? …or is it you that’s the monster? You better heal or you will keep playing with those demons, instead of dog walking their *ss. Wake up…Everything that glitters ain’t gold. And, if you’re doing your thing, you have to know that low vibrational people are maliciously planning to attack you and take your sh*t. Stop walking around here like a bobble head with no spiritual protection. Protect yourselves and your family. Monsters do exist, most will come faster at one through the people, you know and love. So please be very mindful.
Source has your back but you’ve got to have your own back too. Don’t give up. Fight back. I don’t want any to fear monsters. I just want all to know that they are real…and that they do exist. Another thing, just because you’re kind doesn’t mean the people around you, want the best for you. I had to learn that and accept it. Wake up, so when a low vibrational runs up, you’ll let them know…”They will get done up, spiritually.” That’s more slang.
Step into your power. Stop giving it away. Go Heal. Be bold. Speak truth. Bump these Monsters. Use your voice…Do you all day, but expect Monsters to watch and plot on you. That’s what they do best…They steal, cheat, lie, hate and covet. Now, don’t focus on ’em but do stay on point. Shed light on their ungodly behavior…Warn all of their existence. Give no rest to the wicked. Justice is being served because they’re all being exposed. Doing and saying nothing, is allowing Monsters to go terrorize us. Judgement has been called… Source isn’t playing with the wicked.
Know that God is real and Hell is hot, baby. Slang. Updated 2/6/23
