Facade
A lot of people aren’t aware that they’ve brought into someone’s facade. So, how can you tell if you’re buying into someone’s facade or not? I’m glad you asked. First, let’s begin with the definition of the word, then, take a closer look at the people you know.
Facade – 1. the front of a building. 2. a false, superficial, or artificial appearance or effect. Example: They were trying to preserve the facade of a happy marriage.
If someone has a blocked heart chakra, they can’t connect with others heart to heart because they’re blocked. This blockage can lead to insecurity, now they don’t like anyone that can connect with others heart to heart. The person that is blocked, begins to create facades about people they know are not blocked…this is because person A is insecure. It’s the same thing with people that are jealous of others that are authentic. Person A is jealous of others authenticity, so they create facades about those who are, who they say they are…because the insecure person (person A) knows that they, themselves, aren’t who they say they are.
In order to mask or hide their insecurities, they create facades about people that have whatever, they, themselves lack. This can be anything from someone else’s talent, joy, looks, family, career, spouse, wealth, etc. Insecure people don’t care for people that have whatever it is they, themselves lack, because it triggers them.
Here’s another example, person A is a sex worker but they fear judgement for their line of work…To get others to look anywhere but at them, they will purposely tell people that someone else is a sex worker. The person that person A lied on, will be someone that person A feels the most insecure or intimidated around. This person may not even be aware that Person A, feels insecure and is spreading lies about them. Person A, likely grew up in a home where others were not accepted as individuals and were made to feel ashamed of their choices. As an adult, they’re still acting out that fear programming developed in childhood. But now, they create facades around the person(s), they’re most intimidated by.
….trying to distract people from looking closer at them and what they’re actually doing and purposely creating confusion and focus on person B. A malicious diversion tactic. Its basically manipulation called “projection” an effective tool favored by emotional abusers. This form of manipulation is highly destructive because person A is what I call, “throwing rocks and hiding their hand” at person B …so that no one knows that person A is the one who is an actual sex worker. Thanks to person A’s toxicity…they project on to person B.
Person A is extremely low vibrational because they’ve purposely used facades, smoke and mirrors, to alter people’s view of person B, covertly because they are jealous and hope to keep person B in the dark and from defending themselves…Get it? This also the weapon of choice, by women that are jealous of other women. Women threatened by other women usually go after their reputations, their target is usually someone they perceive as more well liked or attractive. It’s basic “Mean Girls 101” people, there’s research done on this subject already, the data proves it…go look it up.
Passive aggressively, attacking person B’s character and creating facades about them, projecting on to them, what person A actually does…creates confusion in person B, leaving person B to try figure out why people are acting different. Person A deliberately picked all of the people they’ve spread lies to about person B …Person A detected hints of envy, rivalry, etc. of person B too, in them also, making them susceptible to believe lies about person B. Person A is an emotional manipulator and no one has discovered this yet…using projection, to hide the facades.
Don’t forget, that person A did it covertly because they are threatened by person B being what they wish to be, themselves. They don’t want others to know they’re jealous of person B. Oddly enough, person A, associates person B, with their toxic parent or guardian, that originally caused the wounding in childhood.
The thing is, this dysfunctional behavior is usually aimed at specific individuals, the people that person A is jealous of, that exhibits character traits person A actually wishes to have. So they launch covert attacks on people like : Person B, for being the real McCoy. In a weird sort of way, person A, actually validates person B’s authenticity..that’s the positive side to it.
Person A’s insecurities creates jealousy of others, enabling them to project their character on to others…stemming from growing up in a toxic environment. …and likely, reminding them most, of that toxic parent or guardian that made them feel inadequate. How’s that for misplaced anger?
The wildest part is, person A seeks out those very people that trigger their insecurities but doesn’t recognize those triggers are wounds that must be acknowledged and healed. The triggering is our internal alarm going off to say “Hey, you need to look at this” but person A isn’t emotionally mature enough to understand what those triggers indicate. Therefore, person A never seeks healing those wounds that turn into insecurities…being a nightmare to all who have, what they lack.
Pretty scary huh? My point is…please don’t let this be you, I’m describing here. If it is…you must get help and heal those wounds or others will spot you from a mile away and avoid you like the plague, once discovered how toxic, you truly are.
Do you blame ’em?
Keep shining.
~Triddy Kat💋
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