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Whatever you do, don’t let anyone come around and keep you stuck in the past with them….No matter what...”You’re to keep moving forward in life.” Sure, things come out of nowhere and these little life surprises, throw curveballs at us but bye gosh, Baby…keep going. Know that you are never stuck! Read the article, “Black Rabbit” click link here, Black Rabbit

The other day, I was out on a walk and decided I’d put in application at the local store…I’m always down for a new adventure, as long as it’s honest work, I don’t mind. Read the article, “Walks” click link here, Walks I smile so much looking back at things because so many have tried to keep me stuck, in situations, I have outgrown…BUT…GOD always shows up and shows out. I was never stuck. I just had to Beast on ’em. Wink. Read the article, “Beast” click link here, https://triddykat.com/beast

Something, appeared along my path that glittered but it wasn’t gold. I further investigated and turned my back on it. It was a trap…an Illusion. Designed to waste my time, only. When you walk with Source, you’ll quickly learn to identify Divine Intervention…you’ve got to trust in it. Source will never lead you astray. Just because it’s shiny, doesn’t mean that it’s something for you.

Will you trust Source, when you’re told to leave something right where it’s at? It matters. Had I ignored the warning, I’d be stuck in another karmic cycle with people, that never plan on moving forward in life. So, they set-up traps for the people that refuse to stay stuck with them. Read the article, “The Set Up” click link here, The Set up

My Higher-Self gently whispered, “Look a little closer at the character and the lack of integrity in the environment” ..those are all red flags. Perfect indication that it was not a true offer from Source…And guess what else it is? A lesson, if you don’t turn your back to it. Guys, we don’t have to fall in any of the snares of the enemy. We just have to ask for help, seeing and then, take the appropriate action, when Source tells you to. Divine Timing is everything. We’re never stuck.

Honey, I’m so grateful for Source…I almost brought Fool’s Gold…But GOD. Stopping and asking for help, has taught me such powerful life lessons. I can’t complain. Now, I don’t care what others have to say…If Source says, “No”… I walk away. Certain situations were designed to keep me stuck. Thank God, I listened. I’ve gotten so much more out of it all…everything the inner me meant for bad, I allowed Spirit to use it, to form my good. I allowed nothing to keep me stuck in the past, I kept moving forward. So should you all. Don’t quit, don’t give up on yourself or on Source. Source shall never give up on you. You’re never stuck. Just look to the hills from whence cometh thy help. Smile.

I don’t know about y’all but my help cometh from the Lord. Oh yes sir, please believe it. Slang. When you’ve endured and overcome a lifetime of betrayal like I have, you’d praise, “The all that is and ever will be, like I do”...you won’t care who it bothers or offends because you’d know without a shadow of doubt… If God be for you, who can be against you? None..Ijs. Read the article, “Shadow” click link here, Shadow

Folks, I didn’t plan on writing this today but someone out there needs to remember this, some situations and people come along to throw you off track but it can only work, if you aren’t aware that you can never truly be stuck. Change your perspective and free yourself. Wink.

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Don’t forget… Sometimes, you must fight like hell to keep moving forward. That’s ok. Just as long as you never willingly remain stuck… you’re good. Slang. Updated 4/11/23

Happy forward movement people. Smile.

Keep shining.

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The other day, I was out on a walk through the hood…I have to stop right here to laugh now because so many reading this are shocked like, “Did she say she walks in the hood? ” Yes, I did. I’m “Me” y’all and I do “me” no matter the situation. Walks. 

It’s funny because on those walks, I look back at all of the things, foes thought would break me down that I’ve literally used to lift me up …it’s during those walks through the hood, I get to really SEE.

Look people, I give no f**ks, I’m from the hood, so to me, the hood is the hood everywhere. And, coming from that, you should never be afraid, should you have to go back to it. Why? Because life will throw you an unexpected twist, prepared for it or not, your job is to adapt. Never be ashamed or embarrassed of where you come from…its made you, you. All you will need to do with that is evolve. Walks.

I do me…I live my life. I walk in my TRUTH and I OWN IT! Period. Slang. Read the article, “Shadow” click link here, Shadow

So recently, I’ve noticed a man and his worker got nervous..At first, it never occurred what they were about but as I watched them, I said to myself, “Oh, that’s why you’re paying attention to me on my walks”.. it was because of their line of work. So they were confused, they don’t know if I’m the competition or out, just taking a walk. “I’m no threat to you”…I’m just out taking one of my walks. 

See how people assume things because they don’t recognize or understand it? I’m out walking but you’ve associated that to what you do..so you’re projecting “your own way” on to others. I’m literally just taking a walk. You perceived it to be what “walks” mean to you because of your lifestyle, experience and background…forgetting, that everyone isn’t from your background. My walks are about me, theirs is about others. Get it, apples and oranges…we both walk but for completely different reasons. That’s why we have completely different outcomes, from our walks.

I said this to say, “Be careful listening to others…always think for yourself.” Why? Because someone may be projecting, their point of view on to you. Most likely, they do not have the emotional maturity to know, when someone isn’t anything like them. They don’t come from their walk of life. 

If you are completely wrong assuming something about someone…One should ask, “So what made you think that way in the first place?” Walks.

For instance, the pimp was looking at someone just taking a walk, the wrong way because of what he’s in to and his background. He’s forgotten, most attractive women aren’t about selling their bodies just because they’re attractive. He and others, have a distorted view on feminine energy, so they abuse it. But…that’s between them and Source. Maybe, she’s just taking a walk guys…You think?Lol.

Their life experience and background, is different from mine, so they view attractiveness very distortedly…That’s a poverty mindset: “Use what you’ve got to get what you want.” I’m abundant because of Source. Therefore; I don’t have to use anyone for anything. I manifest. The reason, you thought that way is because of the way “you” are.. you tried to project what you’re in to, on to me. I’m attractive but I have never accomplished my goals because of that. I’m diligent and resilient…therefore, I achieve. I’m so much more than my looks dear. I’m far from shallow. Walks.

Me, being highly intelligent and creative, automatically grants me access to establishing myself, and my life the upright, positive way….and, yes, I take walks. 

This means, I don’t and didn’t have to use my looks to become successful. Why? Because..I’m also a very hard worker, everything I do is legit, though hateful, jealous people try to say otherwise. That’s why I call them fugazi and haters. Read the article, “Fugazi” click link here, https://triddykat.com/fugazi

I get results always…not by bending other people’s will or lying, cheating, stealing, slandering and manipulating them. By me simply being, Me. I am enough. I just do the work on me and mind my business. My walk through life has taught me that lesson long ago, so I know better. Focus on yourself, not others. Money talks, bull***t walks…leave people and their bs right there with them guys. You just walk away and smile. They’ll get it one day. Lol. Walks.

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Be careful of how you perceive others, it’s a reflection of who “You” are, not them. Wink. Updated 4/11/23

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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Some of y’all are with people that hate your ex. Just because…they can’t be who your ex is, as a person. And, it’s not for the reason, you think it is. Have you ever stopped to think about, why? If they are in a relationship with you, why do they even care about the ex? I know, I personally could care less about who any of my exes are screwing. That’s their business. Heck, some of my exes are screwing friends and family. I laugh and say, “Tah” to all. But a hater really does care about what you’ve got going on. A doppelgänger, absolutely cares because they want to be, who that person is so bad, they will even date the person’s exes..trying to feel adequate. I call them, official members of the Jezebel Clan.

You may not even know the person. I literally had an ex, that was with a woman, so consumed with me, that she copied everything I did. I told y’all about the strange obsession, Read, “Obsessed” click link here, Obsessed? a lover, of an ex, had with me but I didn’t know. They were secretly, cock-blocking me, obsessively, and illegally keeping tabs on my life. Read the article, “Cock Blocker” click link here, COCK BLOCKER They are aware of the love, an ex has/had for you and they are so insecure, over that LOVE, they want even the memory of you, erased. Now, how’s that for crazy? I told y’all, I’ve been through it all. The current partner, dating men, I used to date…wtf? Do I even know you? No. But he purposely created that resentment in her, for me. All narcissist play mind games, to pit their lovers against one another, lest they awaken, unite and cut the narc off… it strokes their huge ego. Never that. Slang.

I’ve had some, go as far as paying people to try to get at me through relationships. These haters were hoping to use a loving relationship against me. One was out, “recruiting” any of my bitter or scorned exes to cause harm. I’m talking about, literally “out and scouting” whomever, I used to date or whomever I’m currently involved with, just to gain current information on me. Then, they’d use the info, to try to cause blockages in my life, on any level…all out of their insecurities. I’ve talked about these toxic people in “Hood Celebrity.” Read the article, “Hood Celebrity” link here, Hood Celebrity

These women/men are mad at your life, so they want to ruin you but they don’t want others to know, it’s strictly out of their jealousy. The Jezebel Clan are made up of ALL toxic women/men. They are all too happy, to help and assist, in destroying women…especially, the one that they are most jealous of. It’s sad. Poor, Eager Beavers. Lol. 

These people hate seeing others in loving relationships because they lack, love. I have compassion but it’s not cool to be these kind of people, out here behaving this way. Read article, “Compassion” link here, Compassion They’re miserable with life. Hating their own lives…they set out to destroy others in love, on purpose. But they don’t want others to know, it’s them. So, they throw stones and hide their hands. Read the article, “Stones” click link here, Stones It can be anything that they are jealous of…your family, home, material wealth, looks, love-life, etc. It really doesn’t matter. You, are just doing you but the hater lurks, in the cut waiting to pounce. They need to go heal & grow up.

They’ll use all of their resources, like: Friends, family, colleagues and lovers in any department but specifically, they always befriend those working in law-enforcement and the legal system…Why? They need to gain access to illegally stalk you. Secretly, they’re seeking to try to shut you and your lifestyle down. Just out of plain jealousy. Read the article, “Rancor” click link here,  Rancor It’s real wild but I’ve experienced it folks, from haters, hoping to covertly take everything from me…for real. They were a part of the Jezebel Clan. Until they heal, they won’t stop at, destroying other people’s lives. Remove yourself from folks acting this way. That’s too much and they’re messy as hell…It’s not cute. Smh. We all know better people. Just leave it alone, it’s not worth your time. Let Source handle that mess.

The Jezebel Clan are incredibly envious of other people and their lives. I don’t care how much success they have, they’re still envious of others. If their man, (your ex) still loves you but they’re with them…they will try to ruin you. Your success on any level, threatens them. I don’t care what they’ve accomplished or title they wear, they want you to have nothing because that person, may still have love and/or respect for you. They are insecure and feel like you, are in some sort of secret competition with them. They are delusional. Please read that line again and make it, make sense. You’ve moved on but your ex’s current lover, is stalking and obsessed with you. A secret hater. It’s crazy y’all but I promise you, it happens.… And, it’s toxic as hell. It’s a lot of things but it’s very far from love. People think healing is ok to avoid. It shouldn’t be avoided …or you’re in danger of becoming the newest member of the jezebel clan. So, don’t play yourself, goofy…go do the work.

Maybe you, are the one with the Jezebel Spirit in you. You will know because you are only with or interested in unavailable people…be it that, they live with someone or they are in a commitment. What attracts you to them? Nothing more than you want to see others suffer. So that means, YOU are being used to carry out heinous, covert attacks on people’s family or love life. I know because before I healed, I’d date men that had a woman. I’d say, “If he’s not married or as long, as she’s not my friend, then, bump her..it’s not real.” See, how toxic that selfish mindset is? What I couldn’t see was, how toxic I was to others. I had a jezebel spirit attached to me. I was in denial. I didn’t care about others because I lacked self-love. Self-love will never allow that kind of behavior. It’s low class.

For example, I remember once, one of my spouses had gotten locked up…and the secret lover was upset because I refused to go put my name on any more paperwork for him. I said, ”Tell his ___to go get him out.” Please, I’m good. I refuse to deal with men, that love chaos and conflict…That’s their problem, not mine. “Hey, she wanted to be wifey, well let her get up and act like it then.” I left her, to do her job. I kept it pushing, away, from that toxic mess. Honey, they were no longer my concern. I only focus on moving on, with my life. I stay out of toxic unions. Some were mad but it wasn’t me. Wink.

Please, stay out of messy scenarios like that y’all. That’s a trap. It’s designed to keep one stuck and stagnant. You see how the jezebel clan believes, one is to always supposed be there for them? Even, when they’ve invited others, in to the union? Please. I stayed far away from that dysfunctional mess. They were trying to pull me, into their drama..Not I. I walk away from toxic people, relationships or unions. Bump a title…that’s an unnecessary headache, dear. A bad look. No willingly, participating, in third parties for me. I step aside. People need to heal. But it won’t be at my expense. Poor thing. Smile.

I’ve learned to leave chaotic people alone. Some say, “That’s cold.” I disagree. I told y’all before, “I let a cheater, cheat in peace.” Bump competing, you can have him Boo. There’s no shortage of men out here.

Don’t expect me to step in to your chaotic world, to save you, from yourself. I won’t, you’re grown. If you are creating, conflict and chaos for yourself (and others)…that’s your issue, not mine. I stay out of it. If things become toxic, I’m out. I will grow with you only. Should you choose, to go create a toxic environment, between us, I head for the hills. I kindly remove myself. That’s all on you now Boo, go do you. I don’t care what others have to say. Bump ’em all...They can marry you. Good luck. Lol.

Spirit wants better for us. First, I had to want it for myself too. Now, that I do…that toxic, chaotic, dysfunctional, codependent type of love, is no longer for me. Y’all can keep it. It took me some time, to get there. I began to see that I really needed to heal. It doesn’t just happen overnight but it’s so worth it. This much I can promise you, if you just keep working on you and heal…you will get there. You’re going to be so glad, that you’ve done the work, on you.

Life is too short, to spend it in conflict. When I was, “For the streets” I EXPECTED CHAOS. Now, I simply say, “Bump y’all and go right on, doing me“…Read the article, “For the Streets” click here, For-the-Streets and you can read the article, “Wifey Material” by clicking link here, WiFEY MATERIAL When you know better, you are to do better folks. Focus on your healing.

Toxic relationships are too draining. But..all must live and learn, at their own pace. I just don’t want that kind of lifestyle. I’ve worked too hard for better. I’m happy with myself and I’ve worked too hard on healing, to want to play all those silly games. Grow up. Plus, it represents the jezebel clan, those with a jezebel spirit within. NO BUENO. I’ve been there and done that one already. I’m good….But y’all, “LET ME KNOW HOW THAT WORKS OUT FOR YA! ” Smile.

I’ve graduated out of the Jezebel Clan a while ago, so I had to grow up and pass on the messy clique. Hopefully, most of y’all reading this, have too. Wink. 

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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Most women are raised, dreaming about being someone’s wife. That’s cool, but I was thinking about other things. Marriage, wasn’t at the forefront because I was too busy enjoying life. Now of course, it was something that I felt could happen one day but I wasn’t pressed about it. Wifey material? “Aww, that’s too cute but I’m doing me, Boo.” Now folks, I’m betting on me, only. Smile. Read article “Betting on Me” here, Betting On ME!

Whenever, I’d hear someone say, “She’s wifey material.” I’d think, “And what does that mean?” …and laugh. I love marriage and I love being single. For me, neither is/was a bad thing. I firmly believe women must shun the idea of waiting on the one. I’ve always felt, I am the treat, so why would I be waiting on the one? Hell, I am the one…what could I possibly be waiting for? I choose me and I have never been in wait of anyone. I don’t believe in that. I’m not throwing shade or stones at anyone, that’s just not me. Read the article, “Stones” click link here, Stones

I’ve been in a 20 year marriage and I’ve been married, more than once. Hell, if you ask me, I feel like Elizabeth Taylor, doesn’t get enough credit. We don’t give her, her props. She did life, right. Read the article, “Liz” clicking link here, Liz She wasn’t afraid to engage in love and if that relationship, dried up, she boldly moved on. That’s so my kind of Girl… cause that’s my kind of thinking. It’s a beautiful thing to love. But most people stay, even when it’s obviously over because they’re afraid to release one another. They’re too afraid of what society says or thinks. Read the article, “Release” clicking link here, Release

Society says, “TWO PEOPLE MUST STAY TOGETHER”…Thank God, I don’t agree or believe that. I think people are to grow together and learn together, when they stop…That’s their clue indicating to both, that it’s time to move in a new direction. Not go have an affair. They can stay together or not…but never at the expense of someone else. Grow up, people. Learn to let go. Take no one’s choice from them…or Source, will teach you, why you are to let go.

No one gets to keep someone stuck with them because people are not possessions or objects. That’s foolish thinking and the quickest way to lose people like me. I refuse to be around people that feel the need to control others. Why, because they usually lack control of themselves the most. That’s not about you, that’s always about their inner childhood issues. They were supposed to work on that before they got into a relationship or they will forever run people off. Read the article, “Inner Child” click link here, Inner Child I just say, “Back away from them slowly because there is much deeper underlining issues.” To me, that’s a.. RED FLAG relationship, tread lightly, run for the nearest exit. For real.

Control over someone else, is not about love, it’s about the need to take other people’s power from them. Shut that foolishness down. Feel no guilt. Run. Love yourself enough, to know that emotionally, healthy adults don’t believe in controlling other people, ever…but manipulators sure do. Those relationships are toxic and very dangerous. They also serve as catalyst relationship for you. Read the article, “Catalyst” click link here, Catalyst Work on you, so that you don’t keep attracting those type of people in your life. They are there to show you, what you, need to fix in you..NOT in them. Basically guys, no you don’t have control issues, you have a self-worth issue because you keep allowing controlling people in your space. Get it?

Take accountability for your own decisions that you are making. Stop blaming others for not loving you enough…YOU are to love you enough, period. They didn’t make you get involved with them. You choose that relationship, so you can choose to heal and leave that relationship also. Don’t choose that type of relationship again. But.. “Until the lesson is learned, it is repeated.” Read “Patterns” here, https://triddykat.com/pattern/ I’m an Educator guys…that’s a rule…and, it’s true in all walks of life. My students repeated the same mistakes while learning an objective until they’ve mastered it. Then, I stop giving them that lesson. They pass their test and move on. Some of us are basically, not paying attention. We’re not realizing, that we are failing the test, so we are stuck repeating it over and over, again. You will pass the test, by simply mastering the objective..so you can Graduate. That’s it. Got it? Good. Smile.

Now, don’t beat yourself up..It’s ok to have to repeat lessons but one day, you will grow tired of the merry-go-round of Life, folks. When you do, Good. You were supposed to heal, whatever issues you have, within yourselves. Co-dependent people would rather fix others because it takes away from what they were supposed to fix in themselves. I’d know because I use to do that crap. Martyring myself for love…Please, that’s a big manipulation trick. Then, I’d get all mad at the other person for not fixing me. Hello, they’re not Source! Stop waiting for others to fix you. Fix your damn self… ain’t s**t wrong with you but lazy. You don’t want to do the work on you because it’s hard…and, likely painful. It still has to be done, boo. Sorry. Lol

I’d know cause I stayed martyring myself in love relationships to fix the men, I was with. Meanwhile, these men never asked me to fix them. See why we’d bump heads? I’m playing a role that I shouldn’t be in. Boo, that’s nothing more than a trick of the enemy….getting you to be distracted and waste your own time…it will quickly turn into wasting your life, if you don’t catch it. Why? Because nothing has changed. No growth has occurred in either party, fool. I had to learn that…Grow up and go do the work on myself. No one else. Martyring in a relationship, is just as bad, as being the controlling person… neither, is emotionally healthy.. it won’t last. They both need to heal and grow up. Period.

Anywhoo, I don’t do what others feel is right, it has to be right for me… I do what I want..as long as it’s not endangering others, why do others care? They’re Nosy and living vicariously through others because they’re cowards. That bothers others because they’re stuck, living their lives for others. So to me, those people are all basically, Fugazi as hell. Read the article, “Fugazi” clicking link here, https://triddykat.com/fugazi/ They are too busy pretending for others. They still need and seek validation. I avoid them at all cost because they are energy vampires. They are too afraid to be free…so they attach to others, that are doing their thing in life, to try to suck the life out of them. Hell no, you won’t do that crap to me….you’ve got to get the hell on, Boo. You’re much too toxic, dear. Wink.

To me, in life, all will have good and bad experiences but I am not afraid to do things I want, the way, that I want. Who cares if marriages and other relationships don’t work out? So what, I can always go do it again…I take the lesson and move on. I don’t believe in limiting myself. I’m too passionate about life to care, what you agree with or not. No one can steal that from me or you. Only you know, what makes you tick. Guard that…no one can steal that from you but that doesn’t mean they won’t try. Trust and believe me, they will certainly try. Haters always do because they’re afraid to live, life on their own terms.

I have never had a problem with attracting men because that’s never been at the top of my list of goals. Wifey material? Honey, please stop it. To me, I’m all that...since, I’m all that really matters…that means, “I am right where I need to be, for me, doing ME…bump others opinion.”

As we say in the hood, “Get you some business. Stay out of mine.” LOL

I do Me, Excellently. That’s not being cocky. I am confident in who I am because I know, WHOSE, I AM. Read the article, “Cocky” clicking link here, Cocky So being wifey material isn’t something, I stress over. I’ve always felt, the one, I will be with, will appear, when they’re supposed to. Plus, I’m too busy enjoying me and life, to be worried about that. Honey, I’ve got a life to live….the question now is: “Do you?” Wink.

I’ll say this to say to women everywhere, “Stop waiting on people to choose you….Read the article, “You” clicking link here, You…Live your life. YOU are to choose YOU, damn it!”

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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When someone wants what you have so bad, they want to be you…Watch out now! That’s a hater for real. Probably, a cock-blocker too…I can only say, “Poor tink, tink.” I swear, Jealousy is a deadly disease. Women need to get it together, stop worrying about other women. That’s how we lose. We know better and when women stoop to low levels, we attract trash. IJS.

Some women become jealous of one another because of an ex, it makes no sense. I’m talking about once, I had this woman paying people to secretly watch me, report on what I wore and stalk me to find out things, down to like which color I had in my hair, etc..Then, she’d literally go out and copy it exactly..it was crazy. It was as if, she thought, she could become me, if she copied me…That’s strange but insecure women do think this way. All because of an ex, that I was no longer interested in, it was her running behind my sloppy seconds…and then, mad at me. Please. That’s that weirdo stuff, I’ve talked about. These mean girls are out of control out here. Read article, “Weirdos” here, https://triddykat.com/weirdos

I felt sorry for her until I found out how malicious she was behind my back…spreading all kinds of horrible lies and doing things to block my money, career, love life, etc. It turned ugly because she didn’t think her, being herself was enough. A hater on the low. I call that a cock-blocker because she was purposely causing conflict between me and an ex, with all of her lies, strictly out of her jealousy. And, trying to cock-block me, by trying to change the way others viewed me…Meanwhile, she was covertly spying and stalking me. Tah, I could care less about strange women. That’s something within them, I refuse to deal with that kind of foolishness. Whenever, one discovers people acting like that…back up from them because that’s an indicator of a more serious issue, that really has nothing to do with you. It’s more like obsession, if they don’t stop, I suggest bringing in the authorities. That’s a major red flag. Be careful.

I have had men do that mess too. Straight weirdos, I tell ya. BUT…Let me say this, Stalking a woman is about jealousy, lack of self- control, wanting control over someone else, that’s never rooted or grounded in love…it’s about something much more sinister…back out of that relationship slowly..they have major control issues. “Run, Forrest, Run.” Lol. Nah, but for real, I don’t know which is creepier, the women stalking me because of a man or the men. Lord, I have had some real weird, weirdo experiences but whatever. Wink.

Anywhoo, back to the cock-blockers. They run this interference, hoping, to try to stop someone else from liking you or having a relationship with you. Read article,” Interference” clicking here, https://triddykat.com/interference That’s insane but insecure people do some really wild s*** to others. I have had this done to me, so I’m sharing some of my wild experiences. Don’t waste your time, back away slowly and stay gone. They’re dangerous, cut them out of your life..Read the article, “Cut ’em Out” by clicking here, https://triddykat.com/cut-em-out

Now, one time, I had one of my exes looking for men, he could PAY to date me, just to purposely break up with me…it’s crazy but that’s how far these cock-blockers go. Y’all have to know there is something wrong with people acting like that. These people can’t stop their obsession. Another, would befriend, whomever, I was dating, to secretly keep tabs on me. They’re very petty but also really cruel. Yet, I watched and recognized the level of emotional immaturity of these people. It’s as if, they feel if they can’t have you, they want to mess it up for you and everyone else. None of it is based on LOVE. Lust…Love doesn’t make you do that. That’s about possession. They secretly mess with your love life. Who does that mess? Smh. 

Truthfully, the one cockblocking, is usually the one(s) that actually wants or still likes you themselves. They create blockages in your love life. When I’d find out..I’d think, “See, that’s why I stopped dealing with your crazy a** because you have no “off” switch.” I find that kind of behavior deeply disturbing. It’s too much. Slang 

Another thing, please stop asking friends to talk to others you’re interested in, for you…if you like a person, what makes you think your friend won’t like them too? Are y’all crazy? You should know better. Most people won’t deliver the message anyway, especially, if that person is all of that..but they will use that opportunity to shoot their shot. Don’t blame them, when they hit it off because you were supposed to speak for yourself…or stay your scary butt out of relationships until you work on your confidence, you’re not ready. Period. Talk for yourself. Grow up.

One thing all cock-blockers have in common, is that they always lie on their target. Ladies, if you’re out here, lying on other women, so men don’t get with them, You, my dear, are a Certified cock-blocker. Men, if you’re doing that mess or out here lying saying that you slept with a woman or you know someone that has been with her, JUST to stop your man from hollering at her, You, Sir Bug-a-boo, are a cock-blocker too…and a sucker. Lol. 

BUT…for real though, y’all, we need to Grow the hell up…stop hating on other people’s relationships, quit sticking your nose in people’s love lives…use all that energy, to go fix your own… And, please no more cock-blocking! 

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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People are finally becoming aware of a sad story…it has reached the Feds..so the victim’s death was not in vain, that’s good. This latest story in the news is an example, to what I was referring to in articles, Insidious and Family or killers. Not saying, this is the story here but we need to look deeper at what is going on in society. All this greed and jealousy, from the people we trust, is scary. I’ll keep talking about being careful with whom, one trust. Everyone can turn, so be mindful. Times are changing and things are becoming very different. Read “Insidious” click link here, https://triddykat.com/insidious/ and “Family or Killers” clicking link here, Family or Killers?

Out of respect, for the victim and the grieving family. I will not use the victim’s name. I also offer my condolences before I begin…

But I will play the devil’s advocate here. Now, I’m not blaming anyone … So I’ll add my experience to take out the sting…with my bs, it was family planning and paying people to betray me (so I couldn’t tell it was them behind the scenes, setting me up)…that’s how it usually goes down, folks. 

So don’t just accuse folks. We really do not know what happened yet. Let the Feds, complete their investigation and share what they find with the public. They all, may have not actually been in on it…they were all wrong, for not stopping it and who recorded it?

But we don’t know, if they were all in on it.. who wouldn’t take a free trip or vacation? Most of us would, that doesn’t make us guilty of murder. So be careful, concluding anything just yet. Either way, a lot of lives will never be the same because of this horrible situation that has occurred. Going anywhere with someone jealous of you is always dangerous. Be aware.

Please don’t be so quick to say all, planned it out before the Feds, can conclude this case. As a parent, I would hate to do that to anyone innocent here. One things for sure, someone is seen on video carrying out an attack but “who” paid that person to do it? 

My first thought was…”Will all of the culprits take the fall or blame?”  

Older, wiser adults are cunning and experienced enough to know not to be any where near this room or vacation…These kids don’t have the life experience or background knowledge to know better yet, that’s why someone was foolish enough to film it..They can/will easily “scapegoat” those kids in a flash, to make people think it was just “jealous” friends…How do we really know? We don’t. 

But, how do we know it wasn’t something more sinister…like jealous “loved ones” actually paying and planning for this to be done and where to go, to do it.. Because in reality, that’s usually how it really goes.  We still don’t know the full story here.

Now, I’m not saying this is the case here, I sure hope that it’s not. I’m just asking people to look deeper and not be so quick to believe, all of the guilty people will be named in this too. Be mindful. Let’s wait for the facts. I wrote this to ask people to look deeper and wait on the Feds. They are trained not to emotionally react, that will be needed to get the truth.

In my horrible experience, it was family “behind the scenes” setting it all up …they paid, stole, slept with and even recruited jealous friends, along with exes, to do their dirty work on me. All so it could appear, like they were innocent..others take the fall should it fail and come out, while they keep their own hands clean. It’s never who you think it is…we’ll see.

Please wake up y’all…always look deeper. I know one thing, greed comes in one color, GREEN. 

Knowing, what I know now…I’m not excluding anyone. I’ve experienced what so-called loved ones will do to those, they’re jealous of or if they want things, you have…it can turn downright shameful and go way beyond ugly. I mentioned this in my article, Rancor. Read the article, “Rancor” click link here, Rancor

It may just be envy but all should look deeper because greedy kids will only get chump change and murder charges for doing this, to do this beautiful soul…but envious family, stand to gain a whole lot more, like insurance pay outs, assets and inherit that successful business of the victim’s and so much more. 

Either way, I pray no family member of the victim’s is involved, in any of this really sad case.

One last thing, the victim’s life isn’t in vain in any way because this crime has brought awareness to terrible topics, most of us, have a problem speaking about but must. Light is beginning to shine on what’s really going on out here, enough is enough already.

Don’t just look at the obvious, look deeper at what people would never want you to see…there is where you will find, the truth.

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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When a Cycle is closed, it’s over. Please don’t let anyone pull you back in, again. Hear me, when I tell you this guys, “Stay out of the cycle.” Read the article,”10:10:10″ click here, 10:10:10 It was supposed to close out and when it does…walk away with your dignity. Bump the ‘tit for tat’ that’s foolish, designed to pull you back in again. Just walk away. Once, it is over, let It stay over. I promise you, those still stuck in the old cycle, will keep returning to you but it’s only to keep you stagnate. It’s just a test. To see if you’re ready to move forward. You are to heal and let go. Read the article, “Testing” by clicking here, https://triddykat.com/testing

One heals best out of the cycle. Every single time I went back, I stopped my own progress on everything. It was like I’d hit a pause button on life…God was looking out for me like, “Wait, she needs to learn this first.” Then, I’d go right back to stagnancy. Source wanted me to learn to heal and stay out of the cycle. Not heal and go back in. BUT, I’d go right back again and again…and BOOM here came the bs, all over again. It was a trap to keep me from moving forward in life. People that are afraid to do the work and heal, keep you stuck. But they aren’t responsible for you, you’re responsible for you, only. 

Elders use to say, “Let sleeping dogs lie.” In the hood, we say, “Just leave sh*t alone.” If you don’t let things go or you continue to hold that grudge. Get ready for a painful life lesson, to help teach you, why you’re to let it go. Source will also allow it to teach you why it is important to close out cycles. Read the article, “Cycles” clicking link here, Cycles No one has the right to play God in another person’s life…that’s a trap of the ego. Don’t do it. Always trust your gut feeling about something or someone. Whenever, I listened to other people instead of myself…I got my *ss handed to me. The people were shady and always had some bs up their sleeve…Guess what? I would finally see what Source tried to warn me about and I would leave, like a dog with its tail tucked. Source would use the experience, to show me that I needed to heal.

I swear y’all, it was like Source said, “Ok, I will let this situation teach you a lesson because you don’t want to listen to your Higher Self.” That’s usually Spirit warning you but loving you enough, to let you go the way you choose. Free will is expensive. Anytime someone is trying to force you to go, against your will on anything, they have just stepped out side of love. Be careful. Anything outside of Love, can be very dangerous. Why? Because Love is the only thing real. Until a lesson is learned, it will be repeated. I know because I’ve done it too. I’ve paid for my wisdom. It is truly earned.  

Trust Spirit. Some have bad intentions and that’s why they return. That is not love, it’s to pull you back in the cycle. How about you be kind but smart, by not going back in again and just close things out. It’s best to do it in Peace. No going into drama or confusion again, stay out of it and just move forward. I’ve done this a whole lot too and had to walk away with tears in my eyes, plenty of times. Yet, it still doesn’t matter, I’ve learned to trust Source.

If someone refuses to be decent acting with you, leave it there. That’s to keep you stuck and stagnate with them. Say no more about it and go right on with your life. Spirit doesn’t want that for you, ever. Some refuse to heal and do the work. That’s a sign you’re to stay away. Love them from afar but stay away. That’s a trap designed by your enemies to pull you in again. Hell no, refuse to play the game, by staying out of it. Source will deal with them and their foolish ways. They will come back around to take you off your path. Only you can determine, if they will be successful or not. 

Place your trust in yourself and Source, (you won’t go wrong). Spirit always wants what best for you. God will hold back no good thing from you. But you’ve got to do the work on you and change your trifling *ss ways. Y’all know better, we can’t cheat Spirit. Smile.

 Love is the only thing real. 

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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I decided on this title because of the meteor shower being at its peak, as I type..of course, the Leo constellation wasn’t a bad touch either. This occurring every 33 years fascinates me and these type of things always pique my interest. Back in 1833, many thought the Leonid meteor shower was judgement day. Who knows, maybe it did symbolize it. I know one thing, it left an impact on two famous abolitionist, Frederick Douglass and Harriet Tubman…so much so, they wrote about it. That speaks volumes…to possibly be viewed, as an omen. Read article “Omens” by clicking the link here, https://triddykat.com/omens

It’s funny how if we focus on the Moon, we’ll see the meteor better… And, although many try to hide things, in the Moon light. I see things a lot clearer because I choose, to use the moon, as the illuminate of darkness…clarity. Read the article, “13 Moons” click link here, 13 Moons It’s always about perspective. Many tried to gaslight me, hoping to keep me stuck in their bs illusions but I refused to accept their lies, as truth. No more hiding truth in darkness, guys. Refuse to go along with those, that are only in your life, to keep you off your path. Your destiny. Release them, wish them well …and keep it pushing. No one can stop destiny. No one. Learn to trust in Divine timing, in all things. Lean not, to your own understanding.

I don’t take any of it personal. I realize that it’s just energy. Many tried to block my path and it was in the form of people, I’d never expect it from…Their energy was being used to block me, from my purpose. So, I kindly called on the Divine for guidance and kept going forward with my plans. I saw them attack my finances and home life hardest…trying to distract me from staying focused on fulfilling my purpose. My enemies attacked everything I loved, by trying to take it all from me but I knew, the plan they had for me, is the one, they will live themselves. I fear no man, Source backs me…and only Source, has the final say. Period.

What you do to one, is also doing to oneself. Be mindful trying to play God in other folk’s lives. That’s not up to us. Respect the Creator of all there is and ever will be. Be careful on how we treat others because it really does matter. Stand upright and leave the rest alone. Do what you can and then, leave it to the Divine. Liars can only get over lying, for so long…the truth always come out. I don’t have to defend it, it will defend itself…I trust Source to catapult me forward, not man. For me, that Leonid Meteor shower represents a sudden shift in the multiverse. A huge shift in the atmosphere is upon us…It’s one, all will experience and see.

I changed direction and never looked back. Who cares about all that foolishness? That’s between them and Source now. I’ve lost nothing because no one can take what is already mine. No fear. Only Source determines my destiny & ME, The Rock Star. Read the article, “Rock Star” click link here, https://triddykat.com/rock-star Please believe it. Slang. Wink.

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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Every time I hear a man say, “He’s hooked up with this bad b****.” I laugh. Now, I’m not laughing at the man or even, the woman per se…I’m actually chuckling, thinking to myself, this man doesn’t actually know females from the hood that well yet. I’m from Queens. I literally grew up and was raised in Hollis, Queens…which is also known as “Run DMC” land. Read the article, “Hollis” click link here, Hollis It can’t get any more hood than Jamaica, Queens. I love where I grew up guys…and all that, hood love. Read the article, “Hood Love” clicking link here, https://triddykat.com/hood-love

It’s something about Queens and music. I talk about this in, “Jay Cut Master Belly Dee.“ Read the article, “Jay Cut Master Belly Dee” click link here, Jay “Cut Master Belly” Dee We even have a famous song, Tom Browne’s: “Funking for Jamaica” aka (Jamaica Funk) that is made strictly about my home town, which is Jamaica, Queens in Nyc. Read the article, “Funking for Jamaica” click link here, Funking for Jamaica A lot of things began to change in our city, once the crack epidemic hit us, in NYC. Especially, with how people carried themselves. Some became, what I’ll call, Hood Celebrities.

Most think anything feminine is always about women but actually, it’s not. Both genders, all males and females, possess the feminine energy and masculine energy within…it’s only when they’re not in balance or aligned, that they become destructive to themselves and others. Example, an abrasive woman (aggressive) is operating more out of her masculine energy. A man that is extremely manipulative (emotions) is operating more out of his feminine energy but both sexes have both energies, within. The energy most dominant, is what we’ll notice first. Get it? Read the article, “The Divine Feminine” click link here, “The Divine Feminine”

I said all of that to say, I noticed women operating in distorted feminine energy during those days. Why? Because every Joe Blow could become a self-made, hood entrepreneur…Only the true hustlers, began to stand out from the rest of the drug dealers…he was the hood star. Around the way, we’d call them our, Ghetto Superstars, Ballers, or Hood celebrities. So competition was fierce in the hood, especially amongst the women, to try to get the boss. Women became more competitive but in very grimy ways, to get with the hood celebrities. I know because I was a part of this culture too.

I’m Fire element, which is masculine energy but I categorize what we operated in the hood as, distorted feminine energy because of how cut throat we were. It’s just the way we went about things in the hood. For example, a woman would see another woman, with all the latest hot s*** on because of her man, so now this woman would plan on how to get with him. Some befriend the woman in hopes, to steal him from her. Others don’t like her, just because of her staying fly, so they’d do whatever to drag her down because they’d become so envious of her, they’d plot malicious ways to try to take him from her. They want to be her and have hood celebrity status…but it’s not that simple, it’s not easily attained…so it’s envied by many.

Some people have the latest everything but they don’t actually achieve anything. They tell other people stories, like they’re their own. That’s a scammer, a con artist, folks. They’re not their true selves. Be careful of being conned, by this type of person, they have to buy things to get attention but everything they do, comes from an insincere space. It’s not real. An illusion. That’s not actually a hood celebrity because that person is Fugazi guys. It’s a poser that’s out fooling people and perpetuating…There’s a huge difference. Read the article, “Fugazi” click link here, https://triddykat.com/fugazi Another, may or may not have the latest anything, yet; it’s something about them. They’re sincere. There’s this natural, quality oozing up out of them..all can see it. It’s naturally within ’em. They’re popular without trying. They’re born with it. They’re meant to shine…and without any effort, they do. That’s hood celebrity.

Now, do you get why I was chuckling earlier? He’s boasting but may not realize she’s after him because of who his woman is. It’s like Hov and B, Jigga is on point but it is because B, is considered that b***, that h**s got to have Jigga. Get it? It’s not necessarily because of the man, even if he is all that, that other women want him. Depending on his woman’s swag and her status, it could really be about his woman. If she is considered to be that chick in the hood, other women, are instantly jealous of her. They all want to date him, just to feel as if they’re on the same level and status, as his chick, who is a hood celebrity.

Now, do you see why it’s distorted feminine energy? It’s toxic. Women do this in all walks of life but since I’m from the hood, I’m giving you, a hood perspective. That’s truly what is going on right now in Hollywood, with Pete Davidson…it’s just happening in Hollywood, instead of the Hood. Still the same dynamics. All these chicks wanna be on that chick’s status, though many won’t admit it but we all can see it clearly. No matter what we call it. Women are women. Competitive until they learn, that it’s best to compete with themselves.

To be honest with y’all, a lot of times, the guy isn’t necessarily all that but the women are so jealous of his woman that they’re giving him attention, just because of her..it’s about her, more than it’s really about them, wanting him. For instance, ever notice the normal guy dates a hot chick and his status suddenly increases? Then, as soon as she leaves him, he declines. It was always about his chick, not him. In the hood, that chick is considered, a “hood celebrity.” That’s why other women feel like they had to date that girl’s dude, so badly. I laugh because the guy really thought it was about him but it’s really jealous women, being catty.

Narcissistic men know this very well, that’s why they try to Destroy a woman, that’s popular, if she wants out. It kills his ego and status because it returns him back in to ordinary, if she leaves. He’s an attention whore. He knows the baddest chicks, gave him play because of her. If she leaves, so does his new attention…and, respect, he suddenly got from other men for being with her. Get it? A lot of these men are not so in love, they’re afraid to be whomever, they were before she came along. That’s why they need to destroy her. They envy what she has, popularity, on her own merit… her hood celebrity. They don’t have that but they want it.

So now they’ll try to ruin that female’s status…it’s only because he’s jealous of her. The foul things start to happen, when she wants out…he can’t handle her taking, her status with her. It’s exactly the same thing for men, dealing with a narcissistic woman, she turns back into plain Jane again and she and her ego, can’t handle that. She’s not so in love with him, she loved what being with him, made her look like, to others. They’re members of the Jezebel Clan. Read the article, “Jezebel Clan” click link here, Jezebel Clan A lot of us need to learn how to separate, the two. That’s not love, guys. It’s people with low self-esteem, feeding their ego and need for validation, off of you…The Hood celebrity.

That’s why certain guys don’t want to break up with certain women. Certain women don’t want to break up with certain men. They’re not in love, it’s a facade. Read the article, “Facade” by clicking here, Facade They know, they are getting more play because of whom he/she is with, not particularly because of who he/she is. The women are jealous of his lady…And, they are coming at her, through him. Same thing for the hood celebrity guy. That’s why it matters who you are with, especially in the hood. The wrong person will purposely try to ruin or smear your name, reputation because they can’t shine off you anymore. Now, they want to destroy you…because they only loved your hood celebrity status. But.. you took your shine back. Now, they’re mad…Sorry guys, just wave and tell them, “Bye, Bye, Sea Turtle.” LOL.

Lastly, pay attention to people’s motive..ask yourself, “Do they love you or what they appear to be, to others because of you?” It matters. They are the ones that will talk smack about you everywhere, spread lies and do you dirty, when y’all break up because you’ve caused them a huge ego death. Y’all know a narc can’t handle that..they’re emotionally immature, what’d you expect? It wasn’t them shining, the shine came from you, the star. If they’re not used to it and suddenly get all of this attention, they are going to be hard as hell to get rid of, when y’all break up. Why? They secretly crave attention. You bring them that Hood Celebrity status. So you walking away is a no-no, to them. That becomes a serious problem, guys…we may laugh at this but be very careful, they act a fool breaking up. Tread lightly people, it’s wild out here.

Anywhoo, y’all get it, so I will stop here guys. This was a quick lesson in “HOOD 101″ …Hood Celebrity, I hope you’ve enjoyed it… Lol

PS-Make sure you have good intentions and reasons for why you like someone…and that it’s not just because of their Hood Celebrity status. Wink. Updated 1/26/23

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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TRIDDY KAT®

*Note– Both websites, 1. TRIDDY KAT. com and, 2. TRIDDY KAT’S MEOW . com are run solely by me, TRIDDY KAT. There are no employees, ZERO, employed at either entity. I work alone. Anyone claiming to work with or for me is committing, FRAUD. No one has been given legal permission to use any of my intellectual property or represent me.