To be a woman is blessed; yet, one must vet “all women” carefully…
Use wisdom folks, it’s not really “Rocket Science”…discernment.
If she is more invested in shopping, then healing her chakras…that should be a red flag.
If she’s running down to the DR for the fat transfer /BBL but hasn’t gotten any therapy to deal with her trauma of being molested, raped or abandoned…then, those are more red flags. Yes, she can be beautiful, kind and maybe even sweet but she’s not invested in herself, yet…external up keep is a must but what about the internal also? That’s just as important and it is not to be ignored.
If the residue of trauma is still present and not dealt with, expect nothing from her. She is not ready to love anyone until she first loves herself. She must love herself and invoke Self-Love.
Women must heal or we will poison everything and person, we encounter. Look at Society and see the damage women, lacking in self-love has done. Stop worrying about the men and fix you first. WHY? BECAUSE she is, Mother. Goddess. She is a replica of Source…because women are usually the first teachers of a child, the burden lays at our feet. We (mothers) are to empower ourselves. We must go back and look at Self before we can even try to blame a man. Read the article, “Self” click link here, Self Only then, can we empower our children. We start it right there, Ladies with US, reclaiming our own Self Love. Read the article, “Self Love” click link here, https://triddykat.com/self-love
Women are the most magical beings on the planet because of our “womb” and “heart” connection…but if there was trauma in either, there’s a quiet storm brewing within her.
We, as women, must “invest” in our mental health first, to go back and undo, all of that damage, that was done to us…and it was plenty but we still must go do the work on ourselves…
…or we spread that mess like a cancer to our environment. We will spread it to our children and even to our men, as soon, as we’re triggered. No bueno.
Again, I will say, the woman is the most valuable resource on the planet because of her “womb and heart” connection but she doesn’t know it until she first knows and loves herself.
Until she awakens, she’ll remain toxic as hell, tearing up her community, her family, her friends, her lovers, etc. A sewer maiden, raising men that hate us, who reflect back to us…how much we hate ourselves and other women. She’ll even project her pain, into and onto her own children! She’s dangerous.
Toxic women believe other women are their enemy…but after taking a very close look at my own life and the lineage of all the women in my family, it became clear to see…I was toxic as hell.
Women must heal and take accountability for the damage, we’ve done to ourselves, by not “loving” ourselves…I allowed things because I didn’t love myself enough to make better choices because of conditioning and programming. No more. Period. Read the article, “Choices” click link here, Choices
Most women have become professional victims, refusing to heal…thus, repeating the cycle of toxicity and abuse for generations. Passing on that curse to their children. We’ve all seen it, the family of nothing but toxic women, wrecking havoc on their community and most importantly, on to their bloodline. How freaking scary is that? I know because I come from a long line of toxic women. Monsters until they heal. Read the article, “Monsters” click link here, Monsters
So until you, are willing to go do the required work on you…
You’ve become your own greatest enemy…it’s not on the men, it’s on us, the women.
A healed woman isn’t attracted to an unhealthy, narcissistic, misogynistic male or mate. Please stop lying to yourselves. It has always been the woman, who decides, not the man. We are fresh out of excuses ladies because we choose any suckers, we’ve allowed in to our hearts, homes, lives and bedrooms. I’ve done it all too, so I can certainly speak boldly on this matter. It’s on us to grow up and clean up our own mess. Sure, it will be hard and painful but it’s also worth it. It will free us. Women birth change because Men will do whatever they must, for the women, they deem worthy and love. Period. Yes, that’s more slang. Read the article, “Change” click link here, https://triddykat.com/change
Women must make their own healing, a number one priority. Period. Slang.
The Divine Feminine is a mentally, healthy, well- balanced woman. Source wont’ accept anything less of her and requires it. Read the article, “The Divine Feminine” click link here,“The Divine Feminine” She doesn’t engage in all this foolishness anymore because she realizes her true worth. The Goddess. She becomes a woman of honor and puts away her foolish behavior…realizing she’s an adult and must carry herself as one. She must heal her inner child and grow the hell up. Read the article, “Inner Child” click link here, Inner Child She highly esteems being a woman. Becoming a wife, may be her goal too but she isn’t stressed to be wifey material because she realizes her value, married or not. She doesn’t need someone to complete her or make her feel whole because she is that already because of Source. Not man. It’s because of The Divine. Read the article, “Wifey Material” click link here, WiFEY MATERIAL
The Divine Feminine doesn’t declare, “F*** Men” because she knows the value of men and their purpose in her life. She’s coming from a healed, emotionally healthy, emotionally intelligent, mental space…so she appreciates and honors men also. All healthy women do. A whole woman shows “love and kindness” to all. Especially, those that need it but she is wise enough, not to entertain and entangle herself anymore with those, who are only out to “abuse” her. The narcs have no place in her life anymore. She knows she’s special because of the Goddess energy, she possesses. Read the article, “Special” click link here, Special The God and Goddess energy is within her and it radiates. Not from manipulation and deception but from walking in truth. She’s passed that test and knows better now. Read the article, “The Test” click link here, The Test
She has got to heal or it will poison all that she encounters, consciously and subconsciously. She must do the work on her. It matters. It is required.
There is a sacred connection between the female’s womb and her heart, it connects her to the Divine…Hence, a “woman’s intuition” but if she’s toxic, that’s likely what her mind is, her children and her life, along with her womb and her heart, will also be toxic. Poisonous. The cure is Self-Love. Period, Pooh. Slang. Wink.
Women must focus on their own healing, because the Divine Feminine is requiring it. Get on it.
The Healer, healed, thyself!
Sekhmet.
Updated 1/22/23
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~Triddy Kat💋
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