Warmonger

How a person ends a relationship is very telling…I can only recommend one avoid relationships with warmongers. It’s an emotionally taxing experience, to say the least. A warmonger is defined: one who urges or attempts to stir up war…Dealing with people that aren’t healed is almost certainly asking for war.

I can recall being in relationships and playing the part of the warmonger. I was a mess, y’all. Jezebel Clan member for real. Lol. God forgive me. Hey, we live and learn, I got love for all of my exes. I also hold no grudges, I chalked it all up to the game. It’s Life. Read the article, “Jezebel Clan” click link here, Jezebel Clan

Most of us, will be the warmonger, at some point in our lives until we emotionally mature. Another word often used to describe a warmonger is karmic. A karmic is usually the person you’re constantly fighting with in a relationship or y’all are likely fighting, having trouble releasing/shutting down a toxic relationship. If you’ve ever been in one, you’d know how exhausting it really is. For example, you guys break up, then get back together, over and over again. That’s a karmic cycle. Truth be told, it’s not supposed to work anymore…it was just a lesson to be learned. Nothing more. Stop taking things so personal and move on. When we don’t know that, we go back trying to make it work. Working on the same old mess again and again. LOL.

Hey, I’ve been there and all I can say is, “Thank God” when it’s officially over. A lot of people leave upset, bitter and vengeful. Guess what, those people are going right back in for another round because they haven’t learned their lesson.

The lesson is: walk your butt away without accumulating more karmic debt. Who cares who did what? If it’s over, it’s over, so leave it alone. The moment you set your intentions to fix someone (slang) you’ve fixed, yourself. A lot of men need to hear this because they do this one much better than women. It’s when one purposely gets back with an ex, just to dump them, again.. A Fool, is all I can call one that uses this tactic. You may have been done wrong but as soon as you go back in to play that person, you’ve accumulated karmic debt. Not smart. You are now the warmonger. Good luck with that, you will need it.

I often laugh when people describe other people as karmic because all of us, have or will play the role in someone’s life as the karmic. Believe it or not, a karmic person is only there to teach you an important lesson about yourself. Example, let’s say that you were full of lust and cheat all the time…Guess what, the karmic you’ve attracted to yourself, was only mirroring that same energy back to you. A perfect reflection of yourself, a warmonger. Stirring up a war in the relationship, just to get you to see yourself.

When you work on yourself and heal, you begin to move different. That’s more slang. We love to point fingers but we must realize the people in our lives are only reflecting us, back to us. I realized this and began to make cuts…I no longer wanted to affiliate with shady folk. It was too burdensome. And, I wanted no more connections to warmongers…being attached to them, kept me attached to their karmic debt. Hell no. I work too hard on improving myself, so I’ll quickly head for the hills! LOL.

Now, I look discerningly at who is worthy to be in my circle or not. Many get offended but I could care less, keep your messy self over there. Laughing really hard. Get real, if you don’t/won’t do the work on you, you are deemed unworthy to dwell in my space. Period. I’ve worked too hard to allow slackers to taint my mind or space. No warmongers allowed. Be mindful guys, they’re wolves in sheep’s clothing…cock blockers, seeking to spread their cup of misery. They ain’t no joke. Shut ’em down. Slang. Read the article, “Cock Blocker” click link here, COCK BLOCKER

Be picky guys. Let people get mad enough to change their trifling ways or tell them to kick rocks. You deserve their best only because you’re bringing them, your best. Stand firm on that. Self Love won’t allow the mind games and bs that accompany those needing to heal. Let jokers find somebody to play with…just don’t let that somebody, be you. Wink. Read the article, “Self Love” click link here, https://triddykat.com/self-love

There is a time and place for everything but warmongers don’t belong in personal relationships with you…it’s too much of a headache. God knows they don’t have enough aspirin for that. Lol. Negro please. Read the article, “Negro Please” click link here, https://triddykat.com/negro-please

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~Triddy Kat💋

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