Jezebel Clan

Some of y’all are with people that hate your ex. Just because…they can’t be who your ex is, as a person. And, it’s not for the reason, you think it is. Have you ever stopped to think about, why? If they are in a relationship with you, why do they even care about the ex? I know, I personally could care less about who any of my exes are screwing. That’s their business. Heck, some of my exes are screwing friends and family. I laugh and say, “Tah” to all. But a hater really does care about what you’ve got going on. A doppelgänger, absolutely cares because they want to be, who that person is so bad, they will even date the person’s exes..trying to feel adequate. I call them, official members of the Jezebel Clan.

You may not even know the person. I literally had an ex, that was with a woman, so consumed with me, that she copied everything I did. I told y’all about the strange obsession, Read, “Obsessed” click link here, Obsessed? a lover, of an ex, had with me but I didn’t know. They were secretly, cock-blocking me, obsessively, and illegally keeping tabs on my life. Read the article, “Cock Blocker” click link here, COCK BLOCKER They are aware of the love, an ex has/had for you and they are so insecure, over that LOVE, they want even the memory of you, erased. Now, how’s that for crazy? I told y’all, I’ve been through it all. The current partner, dating men, I used to date…wtf? Do I even know you? No. But he purposely created that resentment in her, for me. All narcissist play mind games, to pit their lovers against one another, lest they awaken, unite and cut the narc off… it strokes their huge ego. Never that. Slang.

I’ve had some, go as far as paying people to try to get at me through relationships. These haters were hoping to use a loving relationship against me. One was out, “recruiting” any of my bitter or scorned exes to cause harm. I’m talking about, literally “out and scouting” whomever, I used to date or whomever I’m currently involved with, just to gain current information on me. Then, they’d use the info, to try to cause blockages in my life, on any level…all out of their insecurities. I’ve talked about these toxic people in “Hood Celebrity.” Read the article, “Hood Celebrity” link here, Hood Celebrity

These women/men are mad at your life, so they want to ruin you but they don’t want others to know, it’s strictly out of their jealousy. The Jezebel Clan are made up of ALL toxic women/men. They are all too happy, to help and assist, in destroying women…especially, the one that they are most jealous of. It’s sad. Poor, Eager Beavers. Lol. 

These people hate seeing others in loving relationships because they lack, love. I have compassion but it’s not cool to be these kind of people, out here behaving this way. Read article, “Compassion” link here, Compassion They’re miserable with life. Hating their own lives…they set out to destroy others in love, on purpose. But they don’t want others to know, it’s them. So, they throw stones and hide their hands. Read the article, “Stones” click link here, Stones It can be anything that they are jealous of…your family, home, material wealth, looks, love-life, etc. It really doesn’t matter. You, are just doing you but the hater lurks, in the cut waiting to pounce. They need to go heal & grow up.

They’ll use all of their resources, like: Friends, family, colleagues and lovers in any department but specifically, they always befriend those working in law-enforcement and the legal system…Why? They need to gain access to illegally stalk you. Secretly, they’re seeking to try to shut you and your lifestyle down. Just out of plain jealousy. Read the article, “Rancor” click link here,  Rancor It’s real wild but I’ve experienced it folks, from haters, hoping to covertly take everything from me…for real. They were a part of the Jezebel Clan. Until they heal, they won’t stop at, destroying other people’s lives. Remove yourself from folks acting this way. That’s too much and they’re messy as hell…It’s not cute. Smh. We all know better people. Just leave it alone, it’s not worth your time. Let Source handle that mess.

The Jezebel Clan are incredibly envious of other people and their lives. I don’t care how much success they have, they’re still envious of others. If their man, (your ex) still loves you but they’re with them…they will try to ruin you. Your success on any level, threatens them. I don’t care what they’ve accomplished or title they wear, they want you to have nothing because that person, may still have love and/or respect for you. They are insecure and feel like you, are in some sort of secret competition with them. They are delusional. Please read that line again and make it, make sense. You’ve moved on but your ex’s current lover, is stalking and obsessed with you. A secret hater. It’s crazy y’all but I promise you, it happens.… And, it’s toxic as hell. It’s a lot of things but it’s very far from love. People think healing is ok to avoid. It shouldn’t be avoided …or you’re in danger of becoming the newest member of the jezebel clan. So, don’t play yourself, goofy…go do the work.

Maybe you, are the one with the Jezebel Spirit in you. You will know because you are only with or interested in unavailable people…be it that, they live with someone or they are in a commitment. What attracts you to them? Nothing more than you want to see others suffer. So that means, YOU are being used to carry out heinous, covert attacks on people’s family or love life. I know because before I healed, I’d date men that had a woman. I’d say, “If he’s not married or as long, as she’s not my friend, then, bump her..it’s not real.” See, how toxic that selfish mindset is? What I couldn’t see was, how toxic I was to others. I had a jezebel spirit attached to me. I was in denial. I didn’t care about others because I lacked self-love. Self-love will never allow that kind of behavior. It’s low class.

For example, I remember once, one of my spouses had gotten locked up…and the secret lover was upset because I refused to go put my name on any more paperwork for him. I said, ”Tell his ___to go get him out.” Please, I’m good. I refuse to deal with men, that love chaos and conflict…That’s their problem, not mine. “Hey, she wanted to be wifey, well let her get up and act like it then.” I left her, to do her job. I kept it pushing, away, from that toxic mess. Honey, they were no longer my concern. I only focus on moving on, with my life. I stay out of toxic unions. Some were mad but it wasn’t me. Wink.

Please, stay out of messy scenarios like that y’all. That’s a trap. It’s designed to keep one stuck and stagnant. You see how the jezebel clan believes, one is to always supposed be there for them? Even, when they’ve invited others, in to the union? Please. I stayed far away from that dysfunctional mess. They were trying to pull me, into their drama..Not I. I walk away from toxic people, relationships or unions. Bump a title…that’s an unnecessary headache, dear. A bad look. No willingly, participating, in third parties for me. I step aside. People need to heal. But it won’t be at my expense. Poor thing. Smile.

I’ve learned to leave chaotic people alone. Some say, “That’s cold.” I disagree. I told y’all before, “I let a cheater, cheat in peace.” Bump competing, you can have him Boo. There’s no shortage of men out here.

Don’t expect me to step in to your chaotic world, to save you, from yourself. I won’t, you’re grown. If you are creating, conflict and chaos for yourself (and others)…that’s your issue, not mine. I stay out of it. If things become toxic, I’m out. I will grow with you only. Should you choose, to go create a toxic environment, between us, I head for the hills. I kindly remove myself. That’s all on you now Boo, go do you. I don’t care what others have to say. Bump ’em all...They can marry you. Good luck. Lol.

Spirit wants better for us. First, I had to want it for myself too. Now, that I do…that toxic, chaotic, dysfunctional, codependent type of love, is no longer for me. Y’all can keep it. It took me some time, to get there. I began to see that I really needed to heal. It doesn’t just happen overnight but it’s so worth it. This much I can promise you, if you just keep working on you and heal…you will get there. You’re going to be so glad, that you’ve done the work, on you.

Life is too short, to spend it in conflict. When I was, “For the streets” I EXPECTED CHAOS. Now, I simply say, “Bump y’all and go right on, doing me“…Read the article, “For the Streets” click here, For-the-Streets and you can read the article, “Wifey Material” by clicking link here, WiFEY MATERIAL When you know better, you are to do better folks. Focus on your healing.

Toxic relationships are too draining. But..all must live and learn, at their own pace. I just don’t want that kind of lifestyle. I’ve worked too hard for better. I’m happy with myself and I’ve worked too hard on healing, to want to play all those silly games. Grow up. Plus, it represents the jezebel clan, those with a jezebel spirit within. NO BUENO. I’ve been there and done that one already. I’m good….But y’all, “LET ME KNOW HOW THAT WORKS OUT FOR YA! ” Smile.

I’ve graduated out of the Jezebel Clan a while ago, so I had to grow up and pass on the messy clique. Hopefully, most of y’all reading this, have too. Wink. 

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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